OP, you seem to have the mistaken impression that Jeff reads each and every thread and arbitrarily picks who he feels is inappropriate to delete.
I can say from several years of reading that Jeff only reads certain fora and in others, he only visits when other posters "report" posts. Then he reads some or all of the thread to get a gist of what's going on and then deletes the most inappropriate. Most likely the reason that you were deleted, and twice, was because you ticked off some other posters in that thread who reported your posts (twice) and he read your comments and agreed they were inappropriate and delete them. Often he has never seen the other posts that you think are worse than yours, but no one else chose to "report" them.