Creepy unless they are a couple that were into that sort of thing, have done it before, and so might not need to ask for permission every time.

Otherwise, super super creepy!

OP, is your face visible? If not, he might be just trading videos online. If you can't be recognized, it's not really that bad is it?

It makes you wonder if he has done (or is doing) this with other people too. Just remember, anything that is recorded can be shared and the internet is a very non-forgiving place. Once things get on the internet it seems as though no one knows how to get it off of there.

Is it something you would have allowed if he asked your permission?

Anonymous wrote:Not with a some installed hidden camera, with a phone camera while they were having a conversation. And she didnt know about it

Is this OP?

You said she didn't know about "them," which indicates multiple videos. Now, it sounds like one.

Make up your mind.

Creepy, violation, wtf, and I would be totally enraged.

If he did it W/OUT telling me he was doing it, then this would be a huge violation of my privacy + a real deal~breaker relationship wise.

You know your DH best. His motivation and his character. Although a violation, snot divorce worthy and not creepy necessarily. I'd have to know the man ago know how I felt.

DH here. Seems creepy as shit but I don't know that I would feel violated. Would definitely be wtf?

Violation, divorce and husband is a creeper. Sick.

Not with a some installed hidden camera, with a phone camera while they were having a conversation. And she didnt know about it

CREEPY!!!!!!

Divorce

Violation

Wtf. That's definitely a violation.