Anonymous wrote:Hey, great advice about putting Tinder on your phone out of curiosity when you're married.

Here's another fun thing to do: Ask around and find out the address of a busy "massage parlor," and head on over to check it out. It's got to be interesting to see how they operate, and maybe you'll see someone you know there! If someone sees you, just tell them you were curious.

LOL

I'm in my late 20s and a very, very happy newlywed. I have several friends both male and female who are single and use Tinder. I have been totally curious about it and have gone on my friends phone to her account to try it out out of curiousity. Did think about creating an account and deleting it after seeing what it was about, but knew that someone I knew would see my profile and tell DH!

Anonymous wrote:He is looking for a hookup.

Install it on your phone ans start searching for men in his age range within 10 miles of where he is at the time. You'll probably find his profile.

This is what I would do.

Curiosity and putting an app on one's phone are two totally different animals!

MAJOR RED FLAG. Do you even need to ask?

Anonymous wrote:Oh, I don't know. Maybe it is too Pollyanna of a view but he could be telling the truth. You know him best, is he usually curious about things, is it in his nature to research or check out new ideas? Honestly, I may download it now just to see what it is. That said, you should download it & see if he has a profile set up.

I think it's possible that he was just curious. It's been getting a lot of press lately.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What is Tinder?

What is Google?

Ha! I like you.

Here we go with the Nancy Drew suggestions again. Geezus what the f%k is up with you people and resorting to undercover surveillance and reconnaissance missions at the slightest hint that your spouse may be into something "sketchy"? I could understand having a hissy fit about a used condom and a pair of thongs in the backseat of his car - yeah he can't just wave that off and say he picked em up off the street just for fun to see what it was about - but got damn how friggin insecure can you get? OMG HE'S GOT TINDER ON HIS PHONE!!!!

Anonymous wrote:I'm the first one (and maybe only one) that said he may have just been curious. I'm a woman, straight, and I downloaded Grinder after hearing a story on NPR. Wanted to see what it was all about. But, as I said before, you should probably do a little research of your own to see if you can figure out what he has been up to, if anything, on Tinder. Be grateful, at least it wasn't Grinder.

I'll add the story was pretty funny. The hosts downloaded it live in the public radio studios and a profile popped up within 50 feet of them for "a guy that loved feet" His name was even something like FootLover. You could imagine the hosts looking around at all the guys within 50 feet of them wondering if he was FootLover.

I'm the first one (and maybe only one) that said he may have just been curious. I'm a woman, straight, and I downloaded Grinder after hearing a story on NPR. Wanted to see what it was all about. But, as I said before, you should probably do a little research of your own to see if you can figure out what he has been up to, if anything, on Tinder. Be grateful, at least it wasn't Grinder.

Anonymous wrote:Tinder is a phone app that allows elderly people to order goods like groceries and have them direct delivered to their homes.

Uh, no. Why don't you google before you make ignorant posts. It is an app that lets people sign up for firewood delivery so those guys from West Virginia don't have to drive all the way down just to knock on all the doors in the neighborhood each fall and winter. Ingenious app if you ask me. Surprised they thought of it.

Anonymous wrote:What is Tinder?

Online speed dating.

Tinder is a phone app that allows elderly people to order goods like groceries and have them direct delivered to their homes.

Anonymous wrote:Hey, great advice about putting Tinder on your phone out of curiosity when you're married.

Here's another fun thing to do: Ask around and find out the address of a busy "massage parlor," and head on over to check it out. It's got to be interesting to see how they operate, and maybe you'll see someone you know there! If someone sees you, just tell them you were curious.

That sounds reasonable, especially for those intellectually curious and always interested in learning new things. And if your spouse already knows education is important to you, you can sign up for a night class. Frees up a lot of time to do outside research.

Anonymous wrote:What is Tinder?

What is Google?