Anonymous wrote:You've seen the guy twice and you are asking about getting hurt and marriage? Wtf? I'd run away too.

Where did the OP suggest marriage?! She is saying she is more interested in normal with the new guy who has a similar status, and seeking on advice for potential red flags. Risk vs naively being hurt again. Re-read the OP.

You've seen the guy twice and you are asking about getting hurt and marriage? Wtf? I'd run away too.

Every person is different. Comes from a different situation, handles things differently. There is literally no way to tell what can happen or exactly how you should proceed.