Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Let's have fun with fringe benefits. I would demand a $5,000 account for conferences and education. And first or business class cabin on all domestic and international travel.
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Please don't do this. Unless you are a top-level exec this will make you seem high maintenance and full of yourself. Don't scare them off. Stick to the things that are really important to you.
Agree. Do not do this. If I were offering you a job and you came back with this trivial bs, I'd immediately label you as high maintenance and not worth the time.
But, 15% is a pittance. They came to you. You should ask for a major bump ... 30% if not more. If they like you, as it appears they do, they'll come back with a counter if they really cannot do 30%. And while I have no real idea what you make, the fact that you initially suggested 15% and know such a precise range of your colleagues' salaries makes me think you don't make a monster amount - so, even 30% more is probably not a ton in an absolute sense to the employers bottom-line.
You need to identify what's really important to you (salary, time off, WAH, whatever) and maximize your request in that vertical. Do not come up with a laundry list of nice to haves that will make you look like a PITA. In my experience, salary is the end all be all and can make up for lack of a lot of other perks. You may have a different view.
But I would aim high but on the fewest number of demands. They are coming after you, so don't sell yourself short, but also don't scare them off with a bunch of small items you don't really need. I'd ask for a big salary, a sufficient number of vacation days, and the "flexibility to WAH" occasionally as appropriate, but not aim for a specific number of WAH days per week unless you know you need them.