Anonymous
Post 06/16/2014 05:45     Subject: Re:Do you use the N word?
Do you ever think the n word when having an argument or negative exchange with a black person?
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2014 01:32     Subject: Do you use the N word?
absolutely not. It's a disgusting word and I've never thought of using it.
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2014 01:21     Subject: Do you use the N word?
Anonymous wrote:No. I'm a white, Jewish woman. If my husband ever used it I would threaten divorce. Some things are really just unacceptable.

I've never heard my parents or older sibling (we're both late 30's) use it, though my parents are what I think of as unintentionally racist. As in my father will tell us about getting in a minor fender-bender in downtown Miami and then add "But I didn't get out of the car to exchange information - the guy probably had a gun. Hey, it's Miami - it's all gangs there!" and he'd think that's funny and then not truly understand if I tried to explain why it's offensive.


do you or your family (parents, etc) use 'schwartze" however?
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2014 00:59     Subject: Do you use the N word?
Never ever...
Anonymous
Post 06/16/2014 00:16     Subject: Do you use the N word?
Never. It's such a horrible word, I even say "n word" when talking about some public figure "using the n word."
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2014 22:55     Subject: Re:Do you use the N word?
No, never ever.
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2014 22:46     Subject: Do you use the N word?
Of course not.
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2014 22:42     Subject: Do you use the N word?
Good lord, no.
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2014 22:42     Subject: Do you use the N word?
NFW . . . Ever. Besides just wrong, it's a career ender.

In college, I lived in a group house and one room mate was AA- we all got along awesome and as our friendship deepened, he used to jokingly say the most racist shit imaginable against white people as a joke - and we reciprocated - as a joke. It was hilarious to us and, to anyone overhearing it, probably horrifying. It was in some ways liberating to be so close that race became meaningless and we could joke about the one thing you never, ever joke about.
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2014 22:37     Subject: Do you use the N word?
Nope. And according to my husband, I curse like a sailor. My husband is black and will use the N word on occasion, usually with "catch phrases" for lack of a better term, for example in "N..., please!"
If I want to use that same phrase, I'll use the word ninja.
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2014 22:35     Subject: Do you use the N word?
Anonymous wrote:...

...

...N...aked?

Hahaha yeah I say it all the time, like, DH, the baby's naked butt is rolling all over the bed, and I can't wrangle him for a diaper!!!!!!
The word is N...ekked.
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2014 22:32     Subject: Do you use the N word?
Anonymous wrote:No. I'm a white, Jewish woman. If my husband ever used it I would threaten divorce. Some things are really just unacceptable.

I've never heard my parents or older sibling (we're both late 30's) use it, though my parents are what I think of as unintentionally racist. As in my father will tell us about getting in a minor fender-bender in downtown Miami and then add "But I didn't get out of the car to exchange information - the guy probably had a gun. Hey, it's Miami - it's all gangs there!" and he'd think that's funny and then not truly understand if I tried to explain why it's offensive.


I say this about the entire state. People are crazy down there and a lot of them have guns.
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2014 22:32     Subject: Do you use the N word?
Fuck no. I can't even say it if we're having a discussion about the word.
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2014 22:30     Subject: Do you use the N word?
No. I would drop any friends who used that word
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2014 22:30     Subject: Re:Do you use the N word?
Jeezus. No, we don't. Ever. And I'm the "Puss" poster of the toddler tantrum thread.

OP, you are in the minority, methinks. Stop deluding yourself.