Sell the car (buy used in cash), get a lawyer, find some work, get informed about your bills and finances before you have find a new place to live. Do some serious research about women who have gone through divorces like this over and over and over and over again. Learn from their experiences.

If I was you I would also check to see if her has stopped paying the mortgage/rent and utilities too.

They will repo it sooner rather than later.

You might want to clean the car out so that you don't have to worry about going to the impound lot to retrieve your personal items.

I hope things work out for you.

Seven year old is Special Needs with rare Heart Condition.

Long Story, born without his spleen.