Anonymous wrote:Say thank you but no thank you. Let Disney be completely magical by only going with your immediate family.

I hate Disney but the hype is so huge for kids. When you go SOMETHING will go wrong at some point and your kids will cry. It'll rain or the line for a ride they really want will be too long, or they'll get stung by a bee. They don't need family dynamics going wrong too.

+1000

If ESMIL freely gives her unemployed sons money but will only give it to your family in the way she determines it to be used (in this case a trip to Disney), it is manipulative.

OP, please decline this "invitation." ESMIL is not offering your family anything that you would enjoy. Plus, how is it fun to take an infant to Disney World in the middle of the summer?

If you're dreading taking a vacation near them (which sounds like you're going to see them for part of this?) then I wouldn't go WITH them anywhere.