It's odd that you perceive the child's home address to be an issue; I hear of kids commuting in to Sidwell from PG county and Fairfax...this child is simply crossing town...Anonymous wrote:While most OOB kid in my Ward 3 ES are from just EoP or Downtown, i.e. come from socio-economic background similar to the average IB family, there's also a few kids who commute from very disadvantaged neighborhoods.
I am very familiar with one, a boy, who has been in my younger kid's class for the past two years (1st, 2nd grades).
Despite the nice, inclusive (and unaware) attitude of his classmate, as a mother I can clearly see that this kid feels dis-integrated with the rest of the community: at bake sales, he's always the one who arrives at school without the pocket money for the cakes; at a school where 90% of kids bring food from home, he's the one served with school meals; at the class-parent reading day, this boy was the only kid with no parents attending. He never comes to birthday parties (I can ensure that he is indeed invited) nor has ever celebrated his birthday at school (normally kids bring cupcakes and juices on their birthday). He was the only missing kids at the school recital (which was held at 6:00 pm); none of his parents ever came as a "surprise morning reader". I have the impression that he irregularly submits homework and I see that he often arrives at school late, running from the bus stop.
This boy is very unhappy in my school. This boy belongs to a community which is miles away and hours away from our school. He belongs to there, where maybe his parents or other relatives could be a bit more involved and present in his activities, where he could be picked up , maybe once a week, by a parent or have a playdate after school, rather than being picked up by an old lady, who runs away with him soon after dismissal.
I found KH's message irritating. If the new ways to pursue integration she's referring to are OOB spots, than she's being naive and writing in bad faith.
Parents in those Wards can compile lists of DCPS failures in local ES, which include , as we know, corruption and direct contracting of educational social services to friends and relatives without the necessary qualifications.
OOB rights, not only do nothing to solve those problems. They offer an escape route to a few kids and active parents to run away , and leave the local schools for the most marginal kids and families. But the landing of these kids to Upper NW schools is not always a soft landing or a happy ending story, as for the young boy in our class.
did the boy tell you that, or is this what you assume? If he were in his 'home community' you've got no bona fide reason to believe he would attend birthday parties or stay on the playgrund after school...maybe granma would still whisk him away for his african drumming or salsa or t-ball league... and if you, as a non-parent or school employee can accurately track his homework completion, you are excessively inquisitive AND the school is failing to maintain his confidentialityAnonymous wrote:While most OOB kid in my Ward 3 ES are from just EoP or Downtown, i.e. come from socio-economic background similar to the average IB family, there's also a few kids who commute from very disadvantaged neighborhoods.
I am very familiar with one, a boy, who has been in my younger kid's class for the past two years (1st, 2nd grades).
Despite the nice, inclusive (and unaware) attitude of his classmate, as a mother I can clearly see that this kid feels dis-integrated with the rest of the community: at bake sales, he's always the one who arrives at school without the pocket money for the cakes; at a school where 90% of kids bring food from home, he's the one served with school meals; at the class-parent reading day, this boy was the only kid with no parents attending. He never comes to birthday parties (I can ensure that he is indeed invited) nor has ever celebrated his birthday at school (normally kids bring cupcakes and juices on their birthday). He was the only missing kids at the school recital (which was held at 6:00 pm); none of his parents ever came as a "surprise morning reader". I have the impression that he irregularly submits homework and I see that he often arrives at school late, running from the bus stop.
[b]This boy is very unhappy in my school. This boy belongs to a community which is miles away and hours away from our school. He belongs to there, where maybe his parents or other relatives could be a bit more involved and present in his activities, where he could be picked up , maybe once a week, by a parent or have a playdate after school, rather than being picked up by an old lady, who runs away with him soon after dismissal.
I found KH's message irritating. If the new ways to pursue integration she's referring to are OOB spots, than she's being naive and writing in bad faith.
Parents in those Wards can compile lists of DCPS failures in local ES, which include , as we know, corruption and direct contracting of educational social services to friends and relatives without the necessary qualifications.
OOB rights, not only do nothing to solve those problems. They offer an escape route to a few kids and active parents to run away , and leave the local schools for the most marginal kids and families. But the landing of these kids to Upper NW schools is not always a soft landing or a happy ending story, as for the young boy in our class.
Anonymous wrote:The end of her message made me roll my eyes.
The problem with DCPS schools is not lack of diversity, the problem is that most of them are subpar. I am pretty sure most parents, whatever their race or economic status, would prefer a school that provides a good eductation for their children over a bad school that is diverse. Fix the education issues first, then work on diversity - making a school more diverse without any emphasis on fixing a non-working education model won't magically fix anything (especially since if you force people into a less desirable school, those with means to go elsewhere will do so).
Anonymous wrote:Hey, Jeff, you obviously mean well, but you're wrong on the facts, at least with respect to your implication that black people and white people "dread diversity."
Go back and take a look at the stats for Deal and Wilson. You think they are not "diverse," at least as a matter of race? Do you think in-boundary families begging for different programming at Hardy are afraid of diversity? No, man, not at all.
Furthermore: most of DC -- OK, a lot of DC, if not most -- is either not segregated or becoming much less segregated as a matter of race. The problem is, as you rightly point out, that the SCHOOLS have segregated populations. That is a distinct issue from the neighborhoods themselves, which have changed a ton in the past 20 years, and are continuing to change. What we are grappling with is the failure of DCPS to create attractive schools, not with inherent race bias ingrained in the hearts of our city's citizens.
Anonymous wrote:Thank God. At least someone said the message was irritating. I also jumped in my office chair when I read it. How does she dare to mix and dishonor the Brown v Board heroes with poor public school management issues?
Anonymous wrote:While most OOB kid in my Ward 3 ES are from just EoP or Downtown, i.e. come from socio-economic background similar to the average IB family, there's also a few kids who commute from very disadvantaged neighborhoods.
I am very familiar with one, a boy, who has been in my younger kid's class for the past two years (1st, 2nd grades).
Despite the nice, inclusive (and unaware) attitude of his classmate, as a mother I can clearly see that this kid feels dis-integrated with the rest of the community: at bake sales, he's always the one who arrives at school without the pocket money for the cakes; at a school where 90% of kids bring food from home, he's the one served with school meals; at the class-parent reading day, this boy was the only kid with no parents attending. He never comes to birthday parties (I can ensure that he is indeed invited) nor has ever celebrated his birthday at school (normally kids bring cupcakes and juices on their birthday). He was the only missing kids at the school recital (which was held at 6:00 pm); none of his parents ever came as a "surprise morning reader". I have the impression that he irregularly submits homework and I see that he often arrives at school late, running from the bus stop.
This boy is very unhappy in my school. This boy belongs to a community which is miles away and hours away from our school. He belongs to there, where maybe his parents or other relatives could be a bit more involved and present in his activities, where he could be picked up , maybe once a week, by a parent or have a playdate after school, rather than being picked up by an old lady, who runs away with him soon after dismissal.
I found KH's message irritating. If the new ways to pursue integration she's referring to are OOB spots, than she's being naive and writing in bad faith.
Parents in those Wards can compile lists of DCPS failures in local ES, which include , as we know, corruption and direct contracting of educational social services to friends and relatives without the necessary qualifications.
OOB rights, not only do nothing to solve those problems. They offer an escape route to a few kids and active parents to run away , and leave the local schools for the most marginal kids and families. But the landing of these kids to Upper NW schools is not always a soft landing or a happy ending story, as for the young boy in our class.