Anonymous
Post 05/18/2014 08:39     Subject: Men: Is this your ideal night?
Anonymous wrote:My boyfriend ( of a year) is coming home tonight from a week long business trip. I'm so excited to see him. I know work has been super stressful and he will be exhausted. So far I have been preparing his favorite meal, dessert, and his favorite beer. He hates laundry so I've gone to his apartment and did all of laundry+ ironing for the upcoming week, restocked his fridge and cleaned up a little. He is dominant and I'm submissive in the bedroom. I bought new lingerie for a sexy oil massage, followed by sex with some new props he can use on me as he likes.

Am I missing anything or does this sound like a good night for a man?


You did his laundry? That is so hot.
Anonymous
Post 05/18/2014 08:38     Subject: Men: Is this your ideal night?
Anonymous wrote:Weird and creepy.


I agree. I went on vacation, and when I came home my bf at the time had come to my apartment and gone through my mail to "organize" it by junk, bills, etc. He also tidied up my space. It was a nice gesture, but I did not like it. I don't want someone coming in my place when I am not home and going through my things. It was a little creepy.
Anonymous
Post 05/18/2014 00:02     Subject: Men: Is this your ideal night?
Anonymous wrote:Don't spoil him hon. The sex is enough. He hasn't put a ring on it so stop giving him wifely treatment.


Yes, definitely too much! You look pressed and desperate. And don't do anything as girlfriend that you won't want to continue doing as wife!
Anonymous
Post 05/18/2014 00:00     Subject: Men: Is this your ideal night?
Anonymous wrote:My boyfriend ( of a year) is coming home tonight from a week long business trip. I'm so excited to see him. I know work has been super stressful and he will be exhausted. So far I have been preparing his favorite meal, dessert, and his favorite beer. He hates laundry so I've gone to his apartment and did all of laundry+ ironing for the upcoming week, restocked his fridge and cleaned up a little. He is dominant and I'm submissive in the bedroom. I bought new lingerie for a sexy oil massage, followed by sex with some new props he can use on me as he likes.

Am I missing anything or does this sound like a good night for a man?


Ew. Tmi
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2014 23:42     Subject: Men: Is this your ideal night?
Anonymous wrote:Don't spoil him hon. The sex is enough. He hasn't put a ring on it so stop giving him wifely treatment.


The wifely treatment will stop once they are married....
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2014 23:16     Subject: Men: Is this your ideal night?
Don't spoil him hon. The sex is enough. He hasn't put a ring on it so stop giving him wifely treatment.
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2014 22:28     Subject: Men: Is this your ideal night?
Weird and creepy.
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2014 21:55     Subject: Men: Is this your ideal night?
Oddly weird reactions to the fact you are doing something nice for your boyfriend. My husband cooks dinner, does the dishes, does the bedtime routine with the kids, and usually buys a bottle of wine when I'm having a crappy day at work. When he travels for work, I bring a nice snack when I pick him up at the airport (hates airplane food), unpack his bag, do the laundry (he usually does his own), have the fridge stocked with his favorites so he doesn't have to go anywhere. What's so wrong with showing some consideration?
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2014 21:48     Subject: Men: Is this your ideal night?
I think you are a great girlfriend and also a very good wife material.

I hope he is smart and does not let you go!

I think you really love the guy and it is not just sex for you!

The fact that he has given you the key is a very good sign.

However, please do not say anything that will seem as if you are too pushy to take the relationship to the next level. Let him come to that conclusion by himself.

Meanwhile - just concentrate on enjoying the sexy night. Send him one or two cute texts to figure out if he wants to have you over or he is too exhausted...

Anonymous
Post 05/17/2014 21:42     Subject: Re:Men: Is this your ideal night?
The whole thread is depressing and weird. You sound like you're trying way too hard.
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2014 20:50     Subject: Re:Men: Is this your ideal night?
Your relationship sound very one-sided. What, if anything, does he do for you?
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2014 20:39     Subject: Men: Is this your ideal night?
Sounds generous of you. But I personally would be upset that you went into my space when I was gone and "went through" my things.
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2014 20:15     Subject: Men: Is this your ideal night?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Yeah, the frig stocking and laundry seems a little weird and overbiard. Dinner and sex perfect!


Really? I do his laundry because he absolutely hates it. He usually brings his laundry over and I do it over th weekend. He can sometimes be extremely busy and I've picked stuff up for him while I was out shopping for myself. He always seemed to appreciate it and a few times asked if I could.


What does he do for you?
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2014 20:14     Subject: Men: Is this your ideal night?
Anonymous wrote:Yeah, the frig stocking and laundry seems a little weird and overbiard. Dinner and sex perfect!


Sounds like somebody's auditioning for the role of wifey. Very thoughtful though.
Anonymous
Post 05/17/2014 19:48     Subject: Men: Is this your ideal night?
Anonymous wrote:Yeah, the frig stocking and laundry seems a little weird and overbiard. Dinner and sex perfect!


Really? I do his laundry because he absolutely hates it. He usually brings his laundry over and I do it over th weekend. He can sometimes be extremely busy and I've picked stuff up for him while I was out shopping for myself. He always seemed to appreciate it and a few times asked if I could.