Dude, get a divorce THEN get all the fucking you want. Your wife finds out and can rightfully use the affair against you. Don't be two timing douche.

Anonymous wrote:She's divorced and very hot. Has 2 kids and per a conversation has "been with a guy in over a year". I'm 36, work really hard, make a good bit of money but my stay at home wife doesn't give a shit about me, my stress or what I do to give her a good life. So what's stopping me?

Why is she divorced?

She has 2 children. You ready to take on another couple of kids? Can you afford a divorce? If so, then divorce and have fun with your new girlfriend. I'm betting you are feeling old and she makes you feel young and attractive.

Have you talked to your wife about not feeling appreciated? Do you appreciate all the things she does for you? Taking care of the kids and household?

My DH and I always thank each other for the little things. He thanks me every night for making dinner even though he doesn't have to. I think it's sweet of him and I make an effort to thank him for the things he does for us, like mowing the lawn or taking out the garbage. (He insists it's "man's" work to do both, even though I have done both.)

When was the last time you thanked your wife for her job at home? I bet if you do, she will reciprocate.

Anonymous wrote:Rent the movie "Fatal Attraction". Then think about an affair again. A divorced woman looking to cheat on a long-term boyfriend with a married guy is not exactly what I'd call "stable".

+1000

Jodie Arias ring a bell?

Anonymous wrote:Divorce your wife first. Take the high road and if you are so unhappy, move on before you have another relationship. Deception is a shitty thing to put your kids through.

+1000

I wonder why she's divorced....

What's stopping you is that you actually have no wife or kids and only dream of a hottie of any age being into you. Thanks, troll.

I wouldn't fault you for an affair given your DW fails as a partner, but don't screw around with singles. Make it out of town or with a married person with something to lose.

Sounds like both you and wifey are unhappy. So keep the third person out of it, figure out if you want to make it work. IF you do, you'll be happy that you didn't cheat. If you don't, you can walk away with a clean conscious and a fresh start. You can't hurt someone without hurting yourself too.

A woman who goes after married men is disgusting and will screw you over at some point.

Nothing's stopping you if you like feeling like shit.

Anonymous wrote:- First principle?

- Yeah. Never have an affair with someone...

Who doesn't have as much to lose as you.

Guide forthe married man.

Very true. OP, if you want to have an affair, find some bored married woman on DCUM.

If you do this, consider what her ulterior motives are. She is looking for a new host to attach herself to, if you haven't connected the dots. If you are going go cheat, at least do it with someone who has just as much to lose as you.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Force your wife to get off of her ass and get a job. Makes divorce down the road easier. Maybe you can be happier before you're 40.

Good luck.

He didn't say she was neglecting the kids.
Until he does, shut the f**k up.

PP didn't say anything about neglect, either, so what do you mean?

Send her off to the "Explicit Forum" - there are lots of men who will hook up with her.

Remove the temptation from your life.

Anonymous wrote:She's divorced and very hot. Has 2 kids and per a conversation has "been with a guy in over a year". I'm 36, work really hard, make a good bit of money but my stay at home wife doesn't give a shit about me, my stress or what I do to give her a good life. So what's stopping me?

If you are unhappy, first get a divorce. Then you are free to do as you wish.

- First principle?

- Yeah. Never have an affair with someone...

Who doesn't have as much to lose as you.

Guide forthe married man.