Anonymous
05/13/2014 17:38
Subject: If your husband's brother is having a co-ed baby shower and only one of you can go, who should go?
I think he should go, but if you don't mind going and don't think his family would be offended if he didn't go, then it might not be worth arguing over.
Anonymous
05/13/2014 16:31
Subject: If your husband's brother is having a co-ed baby shower and only one of you can go, who should go?
Husband.
Anonymous
05/13/2014 15:33
Subject: If your husband's brother is having a co-ed baby shower and only one of you can go, who should go?
Anonymous wrote:Has your husband been to a co-ed shower before?
Maybe he is picturing all the stupid shower games he has heard you talk about from showers you have attended and doesn't want to make a hat out of bows!
I agree with all that your DH goes but maybe he is balking because he doesn't know what to expect
+1. In my experience, co-ed showers are basically a BBQ with beer.
Anonymous
05/13/2014 15:30
Subject: If your husband's brother is having a co-ed baby shower and only one of you can go, who should go?
His family = he goes.
Anonymous
05/13/2014 14:37
Subject: If your husband's brother is having a co-ed baby shower and only one of you can go, who should go?
Anonymous wrote:21:01 here. Of course, you need to decide whether it's less work for you to (1) go to the shower, sip a glass of champagne, and watch the mom-to-be open some presents vs. (2) watch your kids. If it's more work to watch your kids, then go to the shower and spin it as a favor to your husband.
+100
Yes. I want to sip champagne with you!
Battle<War
Anonymous
05/12/2014 07:17
Subject: Re:If your husband's brother is having a co-ed baby shower and only one of you can go, who should go
OP here. An almost DCUM agreement. I don't really know SIL well. We had a co-ed baby shower once upon a time and tried to tone down some of the games, so it wouldn't be torture for the guys there. I can't remember if BIL came but it's not the same situation since it was prior to SIL and anyone having kids.