Anonymous wrote:Do you have to be faithful?

Oh good question! We have not talked about that, weirdly. But my guess is it would cause a fracture in our relationship if he knew I was with other men, though he wouldn't feel "cheated on" rather just not as close with me. He knows I bring other men to family weddings and such, which doesn't bother him.

Is this acceptable in your culture or his? Not judging. My family is full of me with second families.

Anonymous wrote:What is a kept woman?

NP here. A mistress that is supported by the man.

Do you have a personality disorder? Why don't you want your own relationship?

Anonymous wrote:Does your family know?

Your friends?

My friends do. My family doesn't.

And how much $$ does he earn per year?

And what is his ethnicity?

What is your ethnicity? If white, what specifically (e.g., Italian, Russian, English etc.)

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Anonymous wrote:Is he married?

He is.

Not to you?

Not to me. He was engaged when we met.

How old are you?

How long are you going to do this for?

Is your own personal life and development on hold for this arrangement?

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Anonymous wrote:How much do you spend a month? Do you have an allowance or can you spend whatever amount you want?

I'm sure if I went crazy spending, he would create a limit. He pays for everything I do to keep myself looking good for him. Gym, personal trainer, facials, spray tans, nails, lingerie, dresses, healthy foods, makeup, waxing, etc.

Do you find all of that to be a fulfilling way to spend your time/energy or do you often get bored with self maintenance/physical beautification and wish that there was more...accomplishment...in your life?

If I weren't with him I would still find a way to do all these things anyway, so it's not a huge deal to work on upkeep.

What if you get pregnant?

Do you have to be faithful?

Does your family know?

Your friends?

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Anonymous wrote:Is he married?

He is.

Not to you?

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Anonymous wrote:How much do you spend a month? Do you have an allowance or can you spend whatever amount you want?

I'm sure if I went crazy spending, he would create a limit. He pays for everything I do to keep myself looking good for him. Gym, personal trainer, facials, spray tans, nails, lingerie, dresses, healthy foods, makeup, waxing, etc.

Do you find all of that to be a fulfilling way to spend your time/energy or do you often get bored with self maintenance/physical beautification and wish that there was more...accomplishment...in your life?