Anonymous
Post 05/03/2014 20:01     Subject: Re:Would my neighbor be offended if...

If she's like an older sister to your kids she'd love it. Ask if the kids can come see her off and then if there's a good moment ask for a picture. Low pressure. I think it's really sweet.
Anonymous
Post 05/03/2014 19:49     Subject: Would my neighbor be offended if...

I think she'd love it, I'm sure it would make her feel special. Just ask if you can pop over for a minute with the kids to see her and take a picture if she isn't too busy. Let her know if she's behind schedule, no need for pictures. This way, she won't feel stressed (which I doubt she would anyway).
Anonymous
Post 05/03/2014 19:21     Subject: Would my neighbor be offended if...

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My DD wouldn't have been offended but she'd have been displeased. She was running around getting ready with her friends, there was drama with one of their dates, the limo was late - it was stressful. The last thing she'd have wanted was to step away from her friends or be around kids with potentially sticky hands to pose for a neighbor.


She wouldn't have had to. She could say - can't tonight, sorry, running late. I'll show you the dress or picture though later this week.


She wouldn't feel comfortable saying no to an adult that way.