If you don't write coherently and correctly, you will be judged harshly here. It's always been this way.
How so? Is it a fault? I mean unless one is intentionally using text message grammar like some teens.
Again, you are the representative of what "black" people do. You represent yourself.
The two propositions elide each other. But the second is right, he represents himself, no other black or white people

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And how is feminine having many shoes? Unless only women can be given a pass to be vain, but to me, a guy, feminine doesn't equal vain or being slave to fashion and what is in.
If one has not more than two model of the same shoe I wouldn't say he's obsessive.
Let's say a guy might have black leather dress shoes, black and brown loafers, sporty shoes, two pair of model of, some kind of boots and little more, not necessarily searching for the more costly models.