Anonymous wrote:Yeah, I'm not really buying this. Did your parents pay for college, too? Did they give you a down payment on your house? What does your budget look like? Having $2M in retirement accounts before 40, plus having paid for grad school yourselves, plus kids in private, plus $200K in college savings on an income of $200K? That doesn't add up. Unless it's all your husband's since he's older.
I'm 40 and bought in my late 20's before the housing market went crazy. By paid for grad school myself- both companies that we worked for paid it but we feel we "earned" it because we had to work FT to get the payment. My husband is 7 years older. No help with DP on house, no help with babysitting either. Sorry you don't believe it- but we've invested wisely.