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Anonymous wrote:Get off your phone and dcum and be there and present for your friend.

Yes, hold her hand. Give her a hug.

Seriously. Just sit there quietly and be present. WTF, OP.

I posted when she was in the bathroom (pretty sure she got up to cry), and now she is in with the doctor. Thanks for your well-intentioned advice, though.

I doubt you. Wish I didn't. . .

Hope you friend is okay tonight.

They kept her in a room in back for over an hour, gave her some meds and sent her back into the public waiting room to sit for another half hour while she got increasingly groggy before doing the actual procedure. So yes, I had plenty of time sitting alone with my phone. I previously spent hours on the phone with her insurance company, drove a total of 4 hours and arranged for 10 hours of child care in order to support her through this so I the insinuation that I haven't been supportive is a little hurtful. But whatever, this isn't about me.

Anyway, I held her hand during the procedure and she did great. She actually seemed much more upset before the procedure than she did afterwards. I am sure some of that is due to the meds, but I think she is relieved at having gotten through it, too. Thanks to everyone for your support. Hands-on with logistics and just listening to whatever she wanted/needed to say was definitely the way to go.

You have made this all about you. Get off your phone, don't worry about insinuations, and step up.

Sounds like she did.

Anonymous wrote:Troll = everyone you hate?

Troll = someone trying to be contrarian and shit stir.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Get off your phone and dcum and be there and present for your friend.

Yes, hold her hand. Give her a hug.

Seriously. Just sit there quietly and be present. WTF, OP.

I posted when she was in the bathroom (pretty sure she got up to cry), and now she is in with the doctor. Thanks for your well-intentioned advice, though.

I doubt you. Wish I didn't. . .

Hope you friend is okay tonight.

They kept her in a room in back for over an hour, gave her some meds and sent her back into the public waiting room to sit for another half hour while she got increasingly groggy before doing the actual procedure. So yes, I had plenty of time sitting alone with my phone. I previously spent hours on the phone with her insurance company, drove a total of 4 hours and arranged for 10 hours of child care in order to support her through this so I the insinuation that I haven't been supportive is a little hurtful. But whatever, this isn't about me.

Anyway, I held her hand during the procedure and she did great. She actually seemed much more upset before the procedure than she did afterwards. I am sure some of that is due to the meds, but I think she is relieved at having gotten through it, too. Thanks to everyone for your support. Hands-on with logistics and just listening to whatever she wanted/needed to say was definitely the way to go.

You have made this all about you. Get off your phone, don't worry about insinuations, and step up.

Troll = everyone you hate?

Anonymous wrote:Disgusting. I would not support the murder of a baby.

We sit silently while innocent children are slaughtered and then wonder why people have no respect for human life when someone beats up an old person or runs over a child and keeps driving.

Stop patting yourself on the back OP. You are a terrible friend and a sorry excuse for a human being.

Did it ever occur to you that perhaps the world would be a better place if abortion were more accessible to people who shouldn't be raising children -- you know, the people whose neglected children grow up to beat up the elderly and run children over with cars?

*FEED the troll. Do not feed the troll.

Do not fee the troll.
Do not engage the stupid.

Anonymous wrote:Disgusting. I would not support the murder of a baby.

We sit silently while innocent children are slaughtered and then wonder why people have no respect for human life when someone beats up an old person or runs over a child and keeps driving.

Stop patting yourself on the back OP. You are a terrible friend and a sorry excuse for a human being.

Go fuck yourself.

When I had my abortion, I wished people would leave me the fuck alone. Seriously... I didn't want sympathy, I didn't want the procedure and I didn't want to talk to anyone. OP, she will be fine.

Disgusting. I would not support the murder of a baby.

We sit silently while innocent children are slaughtered and then wonder why people have no respect for human life when someone beats up an old person or runs over a child and keeps driving.

Stop patting yourself on the back OP. You are a terrible friend and a sorry excuse for a human being.

Anonymous wrote:Today my friend who had an abortion says she wished her "support" person had made some effort to talk her out of it. There were other options.

Which clinics lay out as part of the array of options and any sixth grader knows.

Today my friend who had an abortion says she wished her "support" person had made some effort to talk her out of it. There were other options.

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:Get off your phone and dcum and be there and present for your friend.

Yes, hold her hand. Give her a hug.

Seriously. Just sit there quietly and be present. WTF, OP.

I posted when she was in the bathroom (pretty sure she got up to cry), and now she is in with the doctor. Thanks for your well-intentioned advice, though.

I doubt you. Wish I didn't. . .

Hope you friend is okay tonight.

They kept her in a room in back for over an hour, gave her some meds and sent her back into the public waiting room to sit for another half hour while she got increasingly groggy before doing the actual procedure. So yes, I had plenty of time sitting alone with my phone. I previously spent hours on the phone with her insurance company, drove a total of 4 hours and arranged for 10 hours of child care in order to support her through this so I the insinuation that I haven't been supportive is a little hurtful. But whatever, this isn't about me.

Anyway, I held her hand during the procedure and she did great. She actually seemed much more upset before the procedure than she did afterwards. I am sure some of that is due to the meds, but I think she is relieved at having gotten through it, too. Thanks to everyone for your support. Hands-on with logistics and just listening to whatever she wanted/needed to say was definitely the way to go.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Get off your phone and dcum and be there and present for your friend.

Yes, hold her hand. Give her a hug.

Seriously. Just sit there quietly and be present. WTF, OP.

I posted when she was in the bathroom (pretty sure she got up to cry), and now she is in with the doctor. Thanks for your well-intentioned advice, though.

I doubt you. Wish I didn't. . .

Hope you friend is okay tonight.

Do a search OP. This has already been asked recently.