Anonymous
Post 03/15/2014 17:42     Subject: Found 2 movie tickets on bf, should I approach him?
Ugh, sorry OP.
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2014 17:38     Subject: Re:Found 2 movie tickets on bf, should I approach him?
OP here. Ok, so I did what a previous poster said and checked past text. At that time frame, he went missing. I texted him, are you taking a nap? And he replied an hour later saying yes. I'm beyond pissed right now. I want to confront but is feel like I'm too mad to do that right now. I don't know what to say or how to approach this. I doubt anything good will come from this.
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2014 17:38     Subject: Found 2 movie tickets on bf, should I approach him?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would, in a polite, nonaccusatory way. Do it in person.

You could also go the "I really want to see x movie" route and so if he volunteers that he went.


+1

It could have been a friend, but I am suspicious that he has both tickets. Did you find a receipt? If he paid for it then I can't imagine a senario involving paying for a friend. Sorry OP.


Really, I've gone out with friends to the movie and been running late, one person gets dropped off at the curb and buys the tickets while the other gets parking and then pays them back with cash, or one person buys the tickets one heads to concession.

I don't see anything unusual about someone who is not married, engaged or living with someone going to a movie with a friend.


OP here. But he would have told me. Hey, it's cool if I take Susie to the movies or would that bother you? I feel really hurt by this and it feels like I have my answer so why approach him.


But you don't have your answer. It makes no sense to proceed as if it was confirmed he cheated when there still could be an innocent explanation. And if there isn't, then you have to talk about it, especially if your relationship is as serious as you describe.
Ask him about it, see what he's made of so you can either clear the misunderstanding or move on without regret.
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2014 17:32     Subject: Found 2 movie tickets on bf, should I approach him?
Ask him and get it over with. It is odd the the would leave the tickets out on his dresser, though, in open site. But I can't think of an explanation, unless his mom or sister was in town, which you would have known about, no?
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2014 17:30     Subject: Found 2 movie tickets on bf, should I approach him?
OP is controlling and boyfriend should DTMFA her!
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2014 17:28     Subject: Found 2 movie tickets on bf, should I approach him?
Ask him and report back to us …lol

I really hope he has a reasonable answer, but I am afraid that you are going to be willing to believe anything he says just to make this all go away. Finding this out time will save you a lifetime of pain if he is a cheater. I am so sorry that you have to deal with this.

Good luck.
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2014 17:26     Subject: Re:Found 2 movie tickets on bf, should I approach him?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Definitely ask him about it. I too think it was a date.
You have a right to know if you are talking about marriage. Ex girlfriend? co-worker? Do you have any inclination of another woman that is interested in him or vice versa?
Whoever went with him, was not a guy. Do guys older than 16 even go to movies together?
Get it straight now before you marry him.


My husband goes to see movies with his guy friends. Always action movies, raunchy comedies, other movies that the wives don't want to see.



Yeah, agreed. No way two guys on a man-date to a romantic comedy. Not happening.

Just ask him, OP. Get it over with.
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2014 17:21     Subject: Re:Found 2 movie tickets on bf, should I approach him?
Anonymous wrote:Definitely ask him about it. I too think it was a date.
You have a right to know if you are talking about marriage. Ex girlfriend? co-worker? Do you have any inclination of another woman that is interested in him or vice versa?
Whoever went with him, was not a guy. Do guys older than 16 even go to movies together?
Get it straight now before you marry him.


My husband goes to see movies with his guy friends. Always action movies, raunchy comedies, other movies that the wives don't want to see.

Anonymous
Post 03/15/2014 17:20     Subject: Found 2 movie tickets on bf, should I approach him?
Is it possible he took his mom?
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2014 17:16     Subject: Re:Found 2 movie tickets on bf, should I approach him?
Definitely ask him about it. I too think it was a date.
You have a right to know if you are talking about marriage. Ex girlfriend? co-worker? Do you have any inclination of another woman that is interested in him or vice versa?
Whoever went with him, was not a guy. Do guys older than 16 even go to movies together?
Get it straight now before you marry him.
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2014 17:07     Subject: Found 2 movie tickets on bf, should I approach him?
If you didnt know he went to see this movie, thats a red flag. Guys just don't do romantic comedies with the fellas.
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2014 16:17     Subject: Found 2 movie tickets on bf, should I approach him?
Anonymous wrote:That Monday, 2/17, was President's Day. So it was the Sunday night of a long holiday weekend.


Also after being snowed in. He was probably thankful for the snow that he didn't have to figure out a lie for Vday for you or her. Sorry, now two guys on the face of this planet (barring gay men) would see this romantic comedy vday weekend.
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2014 16:15     Subject: Found 2 movie tickets on bf, should I approach him?
That Monday, 2/17, was President's Day. So it was the Sunday night of a long holiday weekend.
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2014 15:49     Subject: Found 2 movie tickets on bf, should I approach him?
That was Sunday after Valentine's Day, if that jogs your memory.
Anonymous
Post 03/15/2014 15:28     Subject: Found 2 movie tickets on bf, should I approach him?
Keep your cool. Casually mention that you want to see that movie and try to get him to see or rent it with you. (If it's not still in theaters.) If he lies about having seen it, you have a problem.