I'm so sorry, OP. I had some "daddy issue" friends at one time. Their issues were not obvious to the untrained eye. Sad that they should have to be, no?

Anyway, kicked them to the curb quick. They had too much time on their hands and triangulation was their specialty. Ran, didn't walk.

Please take care of yourself during this awful time.

OP, get therapy and support for yourself. You come first. You need to learn how to surround yourself with positive people who are NOT looking for loopholes to kcuf with you.

Lonely women are everywhere. Learn to identify them and keep them away.

Anonymous wrote:I just think that given OP must be in shock, she can temporarily table the how she got there query for the moment and figure out where she is at RIGHT NOW.

Like how not to go bonkers and how to deal with being alone in this. OP do you have relatives you can call? This may be the time to involve family if you have a good relationship with any of them.

This is probably where she learned to have relationships and why she chooses the partners and friends she does. Be careful....