This is helpful and offers some basis for comparison. Ours is shown bold next to yours
Anonymous wrote:Not sure everyone is counting the same things. Just a few of my monthly expenses:
$800 - health insurance premium (self insured) $285 thru federal program that we are eligible
$500- contribution to HSA plan (some double counting with the next one except we use this as a savings vehicle so don't use it to pay health expenses) we don't have this and am not counting any savings within our monthly expenses
$600 - out of pocket health care due to high deductible plan, although again some of this is kid related $75 - again because of our coverage
$800 - weekly house cleaning plus tax obligation on that $200 - house cleaned bi-weekly
$200 - lawn care (March-November) $140 monthly incl winter because the service clears the snow as well
$800 - groceries/wine (although that does include food for kids, so maybe a little less) $1500 is our average Amex bill that includes food, gas, car insurance, cable, cellphones, eating out, for the two of us
$400 - eating out (one or two decent meals, a few quick take outs) See item just above
$1200 - average monthly cost for vacations and travel not counting kids portion (ski trips, weekend trips, travel to summer house) $500 monthly which includes two international trips and one cruise annually
So that's over $5000 without clothes, car insurance, gas, car repairs, utilities, cell phone, gifts, contributions to church and charity, savings, etc. I get that much of this is at the high end but health care alone is nearly $2k.
All of the above works out to about $2700: include another $500 monthly for clothes, gifts, car repairs, miscellaneous and we are at $3200 monthly.