Hmm if he's into bandage and choking and spanking and name calling....join the club! There's many that enjoy worse. Most of these girls hear the rumors and it makes them want it more. Crazy! I enjoy the occasional rough set (biting, scratching, and even a hard slap to the face) but I would never, NEVER!!! Bring an under aged person to my bed. And certainly never impose my urges on an unwilling partner. So many creeps, male and female alike, use bdsm as an outlet for anger. I use it as an outlet for pleasure. I do get pleasure from a certain amount of pain. Play piercings when appropriately in the mood (BOTH PARTIES) I think I could give Mr. Leto a run for his dirty. Most men like what I offer. But only if their over 25, willing and able to be both submissive and dominant. This is a take turns situation. If he's as much if a creep as has been mentioned. I took 15 years of krav magah for a reason

all 's fair in an unfair environment. He'd regret it. Lol