Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm HOSTING the shower. That means I take care of everything. Who cares if I cook it or order it?
You also have $$ constraints. Either increase your budget or be prepared to put in some work, if only to bake and plate frozen appetizers and mix tubs of green salad.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why are you hosting if you aren't even willing to make a salad? Can you get someone to help you co-host? 50 people is a good size group. I would just do potbelly or corner bakery. Do a bunch of salads, breads and cookies. It might be a little more than $500 but it's tough to get below $10/person if you are ordering everything.
Who said hosts have to cook a thing? That doesn't even make sense.
They don't but this host also doesn't want to have it catered and rejected the idea of store bought chicken salad and green salad because she doesn't want to "cook".
Anonymous wrote:Id go to Costco and get remade chicken salad, croissants , prepared fruit salad, hummus and veggie platter, shrimp cocktail platter, pinwheel sandwich platter. Brownie bites and a nice cake with fruit on top. Wine, lemonade, water.
Anonymous wrote:Do you mind picking up a lot of things?
Trays of sandwiches from Taylor Gourmet or Whole Foods.
Fruit Tray, Veggie Tray, Cheese Tray from Whole Foods.
A big bowl of pasta salad or beans salad or something from Whole Foods.
Cookies or Brownies from Whole Foods.
Cupcakes from Georgetown Cupcake or somewhere.
Drinks: cups, ice, champagne, iced tea pitchers, pelligrino sodas, waters.
Anonymous wrote:I'm HOSTING the shower. That means I take care of everything. Who cares if I cook it or order it?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why are you hosting if you aren't even willing to make a salad? Can you get someone to help you co-host? 50 people is a good size group. I would just do potbelly or corner bakery. Do a bunch of salads, breads and cookies. It might be a little more than $500 but it's tough to get below $10/person if you are ordering everything.
Who said hosts have to cook a thing? That doesn't even make sense.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why are you hosting if you aren't even willing to make a salad? Can you get someone to help you co-host? 50 people is a good size group. I would just do potbelly or corner bakery. Do a bunch of salads, breads and cookies. It might be a little more than $500 but it's tough to get below $10/person if you are ordering everything.
Who said hosts have to cook a thing? That doesn't even make sense.
It's common sense unless someone else is springing for catering. Or maybe this is the adult version of the kid's party when (adult) guests are not served any food or drink (sort of like the last lunchtime party that my DS was invited to which had an invitation that specified that food and drink would be served to kids and adults and adults were not even offered a bottle of water let alone food).