Anonymous
Post 01/29/2014 15:05     Subject: s/o If you are a man and don't have sex with your wife often (not explicit)
Anonymous wrote:ESPN


Hahaha
Anonymous
Post 01/29/2014 15:04     Subject: s/o If you are a man and don't have sex with your wife often (not explicit)
14:58 here. I'm sorry.
Anonymous
Post 01/29/2014 15:01     Subject: s/o If you are a man and don't have sex with your wife often (not explicit)
Anonymous wrote:I'm just saying that it could be worse.


Really? Why don't you live it and get back to me.
Anonymous
Post 01/29/2014 15:00     Subject: s/o If you are a man and don't have sex with your wife often (not explicit)
Anonymous wrote:But does he still love you? It sounds like he's sticking around and at least not having an affair. If you're not interested (unclear from your post) and he's getting his outlet through porn, that doesn't sound so bad. Sorry about cancer. Hope you've recovered -- amazing modern medicine.




My husband is putting porn over a sex life with his wife. This is not a good thing. I am interested in sex with him. He can't have sex with me because he has trained himself to only get excited over unrealistic images of other women. How is this sticking around? As for the cancer, I have a long road to travel and it looks like my DH has checked out for now.

Anonymous
Post 01/29/2014 14:58     Subject: s/o If you are a man and don't have sex with your wife often (not explicit)
I'm just saying that it could be worse.
Anonymous
Post 01/29/2014 14:54     Subject: s/o If you are a man and don't have sex with your wife often (not explicit)
Anonymous wrote:But does he still love you? It sounds like he's sticking around and at least not having an affair. If you're not interested (unclear from your post) and he's getting his outlet through porn, that doesn't sound so bad. Sorry about cancer. Hope you've recovered -- amazing modern medicine.



At least not having an affair? Men.
Anonymous
Post 01/29/2014 14:53     Subject: Re:s/o If you are a man and don't have sex with your wife often (not explicit)
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:DH works 90 hours a week. He is really too tired and I understand that.


Hmm. I thought that was a woman's excuse. I know this is not explicit, but there are sexy things to do that don't make him do the work. I'm skeptical of a guy saying he's too tired.


Right. If he turns down a BJ, he's either gay or having an affair. Or I guess he could be addicted to porn and just all tapped out.



I sure hope this is the reason.
Anonymous
Post 01/29/2014 14:53     Subject: s/o If you are a man and don't have sex with your wife often (not explicit)
But does he still love you? It sounds like he's sticking around and at least not having an affair. If you're not interested (unclear from your post) and he's getting his outlet through porn, that doesn't sound so bad. Sorry about cancer. Hope you've recovered -- amazing modern medicine.
Anonymous
Post 01/29/2014 14:49     Subject: s/o If you are a man and don't have sex with your wife often (not explicit)
My DH prefers pleasuring himself while watching smooth skinned 18 yo's with giant boobs pleasure each other on his smartphone late at night when he thinks I don't know. After 10 years of marriage and cancer, I don't do it for him anymore.
Anonymous
Post 01/29/2014 14:45     Subject: s/o If you are a man and don't have sex with your wife often (not explicit)
DW told me no for years. We were down 3-4 times a year. I got tired of begging so I stopped asking. Found other outlets.
Anonymous
Post 01/29/2014 14:41     Subject: s/o If you are a man and don't have sex with your wife often (not explicit)
Anonymous wrote:Don't fall for that one, dude. I got my sack snipped for nothing.


Damn I'd be like
Anonymous
Post 01/29/2014 14:37     Subject: s/o If you are a man and don't have sex with your wife often (not explicit)
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:At least he's trying. That's a good step. DW wants to want to have sex. She just doesn't want to have sex. If she could take a pill or get a shot that made her want to want to have sex, I'm sure she would do it in a heartbeat.


This may be random or off base, but the form of birth control might alter a woman's libido? Hormonal aspects for sure, but for the women out there:

Does worry about unwanted pregnancy or maybe STD suppresses your desire?


Don't fall for that one, dude. I got my sack snipped for nothing.
Anonymous
Post 01/29/2014 14:30     Subject: Re:s/o If you are a man and don't have sex with your wife often (not explicit)
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:DH works 90 hours a week. He is really too tired and I understand that.


Hmm. I thought that was a woman's excuse. I know this is not explicit, but there are sexy things to do that don't make him do the work. I'm skeptical of a guy saying he's too tired.


Right. If he turns down a BJ, he's either gay or having an affair. Or I guess he could be addicted to porn and just all tapped out.
Anonymous
Post 01/29/2014 14:11     Subject: Re:s/o If you are a man and don't have sex with your wife often (not explicit)
Anonymous wrote:DH works 90 hours a week. He is really too tired and I understand that.


Hmm. I thought that was a woman's excuse. I know this is not explicit, but there are sexy things to do that don't make him do the work. I'm skeptical of a guy saying he's too tired.
Anonymous
Post 01/29/2014 14:09     Subject: s/o If you are a man and don't have sex with your wife often (not explicit)
Anonymous wrote:Wife is not interested anymore. At first she tried to finger out what was wrong with herself, then she claimed all her friends hate sex.


Tell her and her friends to read this board. If you believe it, you're the only one not having sex.