Anonymous wrote:This woman may drink or have an eating disorder.

No to both. She's a career woman, makes a lot of money and is very good at what she does. She also travels a lot for work and pleasure. So blowing things off is totally not in her nature or everyday life. This is a specific kind of treatment we're getting from her.

my sister is like this...left me stranded at the airport once, among many other things. I got tired of it and I haven't spoken to her inabout five years. She's toxic inother ways too. I'd stop making the effort, or at least stop clearing the schedule. invite them to something you're already doing and call it good.