Anonymous wrote:You grow apart.

^Lame excuse, and choosing to ignore the underlying issues.

Anonymous wrote:Lets list signs that you and your spouse should divorce. I'll start:

1. He'd rather spend time with anyone other than you.

Go!

When your youngest asked your DW.. "Why don't you kiss or hug daddy?"

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Anonymous wrote:When spouse has ongoing "affair"'with a paid sex worker/escort and tells you it's your own fault because you've gained 35 pounds.

Well I'm not saying he should have an affair, but 35lbs? I'd be turned off too. Unless you are 6'4", that is a a very hefty amount to gain.

Wait let me get this right -- 2nd pp believes it is a-ok to effectively end the marriage (by taking up with a prostitute) because the spouse gained 35 pounds. Is that correct?

Read again. I'd say though that gaining 35lbs, outside of a major medical condition is a pretty bad offense and repulsive to some.

. You're a horrid person.

Anonymous wrote:When the thought of having sex with your spouse makes you feel disgust, dread and repulsion.

+1,000 This is a sign, and perhaps more insidious than others mentioned. Like you're going along thinking things are not great but maybe salvageable, and then you realize you can't stand the thought of even touching him.

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Anonymous wrote:When spouse has ongoing "affair"'with a paid sex worker/escort and tells you it's your own fault because you've gained 35 pounds.

Well I'm not saying he should have an affair, but 35lbs? I'd be turned off too. Unless you are 6'4", that is a a very hefty amount to gain.

Wait let me get this right -- 2nd pp believes it is a-ok to effectively end the marriage (by taking up with a prostitute) because the spouse gained 35 pounds. Is that correct?

Read again. I'd say though that gaining 35lbs, outside of a major medical condition is a pretty bad offense and repulsive to some.

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Anonymous wrote:When spouse has ongoing "affair"'with a paid sex worker/escort and tells you it's your own fault because you've gained 35 pounds.

Well I'm not saying he should have an affair, but 35lbs? I'd be turned off too. Unless you are 6'4", that is a a very hefty amount to gain.

Wait let me get this right -- 2nd pp believes it is a-ok to effectively end the marriage (by taking up with a prostitute) because the spouse gained 35 pounds. Is that correct?

Anonymous wrote:When spouse has ongoing "affair"'with a paid sex worker/escort and tells you it's your own fault because you've gained 35 pounds.

Well I'm not saying he should have an affair, but 35lbs? I'd be turned off too. Unless you are 6'4", that is a a very hefty amount to gain.

Anonymous wrote:When spouse has ongoing "affair"'with a paid sex worker/escort and tells you it's your own fault because you've gained 35 pounds.

but it IS your fault then!

You grow apart.

Shits the bed and laughs

You never have sex with him.

You equate sex with him to rape because you have a low sex drive whilst he has a normal or high sex drive, yet you expect him to remain happily married in celibacy to you for life.

You hate him, secretly or openly.

He had an affair for the last two years and you didn't even notice.

He has asked you for one, and you're genuinely surprised.

These are all pulled from recent DCUM threads. I've been married forever, and frankly I'm sometimes amazed that an OPs are still married.