Anonymous
12/12/2013 12:17
Subject: Had an actual fight with DH about Gisele Bundchen
Anonymous wrote:I think breastfeeding is important to Gisele. She has a mountain of money. If she did not want to be nursing that child (or holding that child at that moment for that matter) she would simply pay someone else to do it. Gisele can afford a wet nurse.
+1
Anonymous
12/12/2013 12:15
Subject: Had an actual fight with DH about Gisele Bundchen
I think breastfeeding is important to Gisele. She has a mountain of money. If she did not want to be nursing that child (or holding that child at that moment for that matter) she would simply pay someone else to do it. Gisele can afford a wet nurse.
Anonymous
12/12/2013 12:08
Subject: Had an actual fight with DH about Gisele Bundchen
Anonymous wrote:I think you're reading WAY too much into the photo. Her nose is tilted up simply because her hair is being pulled back and she's tilted her whole face up to have makeup put on.
She's not "being pampered" in that picture. She is simply WORKING. That's all. This is what she does for a living.
I forgive any pregnant woman and any woman crazy high off having recently been pregnant of any ridiculous stuff they say, so her comment a couple of years ago didn't bother me at all.
It sounds like YOU are feeling guilty and that's why you're defensive.
Ha, you're one of Gisele's peeps!
Anonymous
12/12/2013 12:06
Subject: Had an actual fight with DH about Gisele Bundchen
I think you're reading WAY too much into the photo. Her nose is tilted up simply because her hair is being pulled back and she's tilted her whole face up to have makeup put on.
She's not "being pampered" in that picture. She is simply WORKING. That's all. This is what she does for a living.
I forgive any pregnant woman and any woman crazy high off having recently been pregnant of any ridiculous stuff they say, so her comment a couple of years ago didn't bother me at all.
It sounds like YOU are feeling guilty and that's why you're defensive.
She's not "being pampered" in that picture. She is simply WORKING. That's all. This is what she does for a living.
I forgive any pregnant woman and any woman crazy high off having recently been pregnant of any ridiculous stuff they say, so her comment a couple of years ago didn't bother me at all.
It sounds like YOU are feeling guilty and that's why you're defensive.
Anonymous
12/12/2013 12:02
Subject: Had an actual fight with DH about Gisele Bundchen
The pic I think is a positive. Yes, maybe it's staged. I really don't have much of an opinion of her in general.
Anonymous
12/12/2013 12:01
Subject: Had an actual fight with DH about Gisele Bundchen
This is Gisele's previous quote about breastfeeding:
"Some people here think they don't have to breastfeed, and I think, 'Are you going to give chemical food to your child, when they are so little?' There should be a worldwide law, in my opinion, that mothers should breastfeed their babies for six months."
She's a smug bitch.
"Some people here think they don't have to breastfeed, and I think, 'Are you going to give chemical food to your child, when they are so little?' There should be a worldwide law, in my opinion, that mothers should breastfeed their babies for six months."
She's a smug bitch.
Anonymous
12/12/2013 12:01
Subject: Had an actual fight with DH about Gisele Bundchen
it is not the picture that offends people, it is the caption she wrote about "multitasking" that I think should chap most working mothers asses (whether it is in the home or out!) Real multitasking for mom's does not look like her picture above that is why it is smug in case some of you missed it!
Anonymous
12/12/2013 12:00
Subject: Re:Had an actual fight with DH about Gisele Bundchen
The Brady clan are America's royalty people. You just don't get it. The King of Football and Queen of the Catwalk are magic. They said don't hate because they're beautiful. And rich.
Now please, give them the respect they demand ! You jealous peasants !
Now please, give them the respect they demand ! You jealous peasants !
Anonymous
12/12/2013 11:57
Subject: Had an actual fight with DH about Gisele Bundchen
The picture doesn't bother me, but Gisele does. People who sit on a mountain of privilege and criticize the compromises that most of us mortals have to make are assholes. And that is what she is.
Anonymous
12/12/2013 11:56
Subject: Had an actual fight with DH about Gisele Bundchen
Anonymous wrote:(1) I think the photo is awesome for its BF promotion.
(2) At the same time, I agree that she is completely annoying.
(3) Mostly, though, I think the BFing wars are stupid. You tried your hardest and did what worked best for you and your family. She is doing the same thing, but her body/family/baby/financial situation/access to childcare/flexibility that allows her to bring her baby to work is different than yours. So don't beat yourself up. Own your efforts. Own your choice.
This
Anonymous
12/12/2013 11:53
Subject: Had an actual fight with DH about Gisele Bundchen
Anonymous wrote:The latest picture posted by Gisele with her breastfeeding her daughter while getting glammed up just rubbed me the wrong way, but to be fair, Gisele B annoys me in general with her smug comments about giving birth and breastfeeding, like she has it all figured out.
So last night I was passing by the TV while the photo was on the news and commented to DH how annoying I find her. DH said he thought she was doing a great thing by promoting BF, and clearly it is very important to her (implying that if a woman didn't still BF with a one year old, she must not have put a high importance on it). From there things really went downhill and of course we ended up fighting about our own issues and not really Gisele - I think nobody should be passing judgement on other moms about how long or if they breastfeed. I myself did it with both kids for about 6 months, but I am a working mom and once I start pumping during the day, my supply goes down and things just come to a natural end pretty quickly.
I think DH believes I didn't try hard enough, and that really upsets me, but it is not why I am posting. I am just curious, does anyone else find that photo irritating? At best, I find it counterproductive if the goal is to promote BF and an attitude of women can have it all, since most of us are not Gisele Bundchen with all her money and glamorous life. At worst, I think it is obnoxiously smug. And yes, I am more than a little jealous
Yeah, you're clearly upset about your own issues with breastfeeding and feeling judged. Do you think your husband judges you, or do you know that? Are you projecting your own feelings of inadequacy onto him? "She nursed her baby until the baby was one, so it must be important to her" doesn't necessarily imply that women who don't nurse that long don't care about it. I'm not the world's biggest fan of Gisele, but I wasn't at all offended by the photo. yes, she's rich and beautiful and has a team of people to help her, but it's also a nice way to show that breastfeeding isn't something to be ashamed of or hidden, and I loved that the photo showed all the people who work to make her look so good--it really shows the effort that goes into her glamour. I don't think that we should be judging others on their breastfeeding, and Gisele has made some judgmental remarks in the past, but a photo of a woman breastfeeding =/= judgment of women who don't.
Anonymous
12/12/2013 11:51
Subject: Re:Had an actual fight with DH about Gisele Bundchen
Sounds like this is exactly what you were fighting about.
You are right, that was what we fought about. I was just saying that is not why I am posting. The fight prompted me to wonder if I am projecting, like another poster said, and also whether this picture of Gisele was only annoying to me. Sounds like most people liked the picture even if they don't like Gisele in general, so I might be in the minority
Anonymous
12/12/2013 11:45
Subject: Re:Had an actual fight with DH about Gisele Bundchen
Yeah. Hate to break it to you, but DH thinks Gisele is hot, and wants to bone her. Don't be jealous, though. Like she would have him.
LOL, this is OP. I am sure he finds her hot, but that's OK, he is honestly allowed to admire celebrities' looks. And like I said last night to him - I am sure the difference between you and Tom Brady is that you "didn't try hard enough"
Anonymous
12/12/2013 11:45
Subject: Re:Had an actual fight with DH about Gisele Bundchen
Anonymous
12/12/2013 11:44
Subject: Had an actual fight with DH about Gisele Bundchen
Anonymous wrote:I think it's funny, she cant help she's really really good looking and breast feeds on a break. She's a model, that's her job. If you were to post a picture of yourself doing your job and also breastfeeding it would be the same thing.
Um, no. No it wouldn't.