Anonymous wrote:OP here. I'm 20 years younger, make more money, and am not looking to get married.

Just annoyed that I have to defend why I don't want to go out.

So you're in your 40s....

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Anonymous wrote:They think because they have money, anyone will take their crusty self? I think it's gross as well.

they might not get you, but there's lots of gold diggers out there willing to bend over and let grandpa slip it in so they can get their hermes bag and louboutin's.

What!?!?!?!! I can get an Hermes?
Hey Daddy , Hey!

Anonymous wrote:PP, one day, when I look up "douche" in the dictionary, I hope it's a lookup to your DCUM post.

Hey guys... we make $$$$ now too. Tables turned bitches.

Im sorry, were you under the impression men care about that?

Anonymous wrote:OP, I hear you. Also 30yo and not looking for a father figure in the men I date. I find it funny that this is totally socially acceptable for a man to say (I don't dig women my mom's age) but a woman is being arrogant. Haters.

Her arrogance was not in the fact that she didnt wish to date him, it was in her name-calling and obvious insecurity. She fears she cant do better than him. And it says nowhere that this guy did anything wrong, besides asking someone out. A secure, attractive woman would be flattered and let him down gently. And admire the old coot for his guts.

Lol at women our moms age. We dont even want women our own age.

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I'm 20 years younger, make more money, and am not looking to get married.

Just annoyed that I have to defend why I don't want to go out.

Actually, you do, because youre a 40 year old woman with no ring on her finger. That makes you a small minority. Especially if youre white.

Let this be a lesson to the 30 year old women who think they have all the time in the world. You dont.

Anonymous wrote:OP, I hear you. Also 30yo and not looking for a father figure in the men I date. I find it funny that this is totally socially acceptable for a man to say (I don't dig women my mom's age) but a woman is being arrogant. Haters.

+1:The bitter posters are probably old crusty dudes who can’t get any ass.

OP, I hear you. Also 30yo and not looking for a father figure in the men I date. I find it funny that this is totally socially acceptable for a man to say (I don't dig women my mom's age) but a woman is being arrogant. Haters.

PP, one day, when I look up "douche" in the dictionary, I hope it's a lookup to your DCUM post.

Hey guys... we make $$$$ now too. Tables turned bitches.

Anonymous wrote:OP probably is in denial about her looks, they only appeal to the elderly.

THIS> It aint just a river in Egypt.

Anonymous wrote:What a charming and classy thread.

Started by a charming and classy lady, clearly. One who is beautiful and is being courted by only the highest caliber of men.

What a charming and classy thread.

OP probably is in denial about her looks, they only appeal to the elderly."

Nope, sorry, I told this to a mutual acquaintance who knows the type of guys I date, and he had a good laugh. As I said, I don't lack for good guys to date, and am dating one exclusively right now. That still didn't stop the old geezer. I'm annoyed at having to spend the energy to turn down, dissuade, and avoid someone who doesn't even have a chance in hell anyway.

Why do the 60 y/o men bother you so much more than the other randos you look at for 10-15 seconds and delete without a second thought?

OP probably is in denial about her looks, they only appeal to the elderly.

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Anonymous wrote:As much as I've seen this and experienced it, this never ceases to amaze me. Why do men think they can date women so far beyond their element? Do I really have say "There are more than enough great guys in my age range who want to date me - I don't really want to be involved with someone who is going to need a caretaker before I'm done with middle age?"

Arrogant much?

Lol. What arrogance? Looks like this was posted by one said geezer.