Anonymous wrote:I am considering helping out a family member who has horrible spending habits. She had asked for x amount and I have agreed to help with mortgage payments only. As long as she keeps the house, the kids have a home and can stay in their school.
Is that really going to help?
She will continue with her bad spending habit while you pay her bills. How long do you think you would do this? When she contiues "wasting her moeny" will you still feel comfortable paying her mortgage?
I have been there done that....in the end, my family member was helped as he contiued his "lavish lifestyle" because I was now supporting his bad habit. It destroyed out relationship. Thanksgiving dinner was never the same.
I wish you luck.