Anonymous
11/14/2013 13:01
Subject: Re:husband rant!
I say dont give him pussy the next 2 years.
Anonymous
11/14/2013 12:42
Subject: husband rant!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Here's the thing OP. Your husanI 's best friend offered him his seat at the table. He didn't say "I'll be out of the country so my wife and I can't make it. Why don't you and your wife take our seats?" No. He implied that he only had one seat at the table to begin with. Your husband appears smart enough to know not to say to the uncle "hey, can I bring my wife too?!?" He's low man on the totem pole. He has to play beyond the norms of polite in order to get up in the ranks.
I completely agree 100% with you but I'm human & I got annoyed with him! That's all
Being human? But that's not allowed on DCUM!
Anonymous
11/14/2013 12:32
Subject: Re:husband rant!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It's a fact of life OP that men can sometimes be so clueless. And this is a perfect example of just that.
It doesn't sound like he was trying to exclude you as you said, so I would just be annoyed, but let it go now.
Just remind him that he owes you one.
They become clueless when they get too comfortable.
Thanks ladies OP here. I truly wanted to vent but have enough respect for him not to do it to anyone we know. I've been in DC for about a year now & have spent all the time studying ( and caring for our dc). Just wanted to do something different for a change, miss all our friends & family from back home and nyc. thanks again & hope all the sweet people (who didn't give asinine responses) have a great day.
Anonymous
11/14/2013 12:18
Subject: Re:husband rant!
Anonymous wrote:It's a fact of life OP that men can sometimes be so clueless. And this is a perfect example of just that.
It doesn't sound like he was trying to exclude you as you said, so I would just be annoyed, but let it go now.
Just remind him that he owes you one.
They become clueless when they get too comfortable.
Anonymous
11/14/2013 01:03
Subject: Re:husband rant!
OP, stop providing details. You won't be anonymous for long! (Just a gentle reminder)
Anonymous
11/14/2013 00:10
Subject: Re:husband rant!
Anonymous wrote:It's a fact of life OP that men can sometimes be so clueless. And this is a perfect example of just that.
It doesn't sound like he was trying to exclude you as you said, so I would just be annoyed, but let it go now.
Just remind him that he owes you one.
I am not sure in this scenario it is the man being clueless. He was offered one seat at a gala for business and he took it. How does that make him clueless? His wife (OP) made as many if not more assumptions than he did.
Anonymous
11/14/2013 00:07
Subject: Re:husband rant!
It's a fact of life OP that men can sometimes be so clueless. And this is a perfect example of just that.
It doesn't sound like he was trying to exclude you as you said, so I would just be annoyed, but let it go now.
Just remind him that he owes you one.
It doesn't sound like he was trying to exclude you as you said, so I would just be annoyed, but let it go now.
Just remind him that he owes you one.
Anonymous
11/13/2013 17:37
Subject: husband rant!
you are giving way too many identifying details if you want to remain anonymous.
those galas are usually boring anyway. you are missing nothing.
those galas are usually boring anyway. you are missing nothing.
Anonymous
11/13/2013 17:33
Subject: husband rant!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Here's the thing OP. Your husanI 's best friend offered him his seat at the table. He didn't say "I'll be out of the country so my wife and I can't make it. Why don't you and your wife take our seats?" No. He implied that he only had one seat at the table to begin with. Your husband appears smart enough to know not to say to the uncle "hey, can I bring my wife too?!?" He's low man on the totem pole. He has to play beyond the norms of polite in order to get up in the ranks.
I completely agree 100% with you but I'm human & I got annoyed with him! That's all
I'm hoping you just vented here and not to your DH. If you did get annoyed at him and made it known, you really need to work on learning to control your emotions. That type of stuff will kill marriages.
That's why I'm on an anonymous forum
just me, I pick me battles wisely definitely wasn't worth it! Thanks for all those who gave useful advice.
Anonymous
11/13/2013 17:28
Subject: husband rant!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Here's the thing OP. Your husanI 's best friend offered him his seat at the table. He didn't say "I'll be out of the country so my wife and I can't make it. Why don't you and your wife take our seats?" No. He implied that he only had one seat at the table to begin with. Your husband appears smart enough to know not to say to the uncle "hey, can I bring my wife too?!?" He's low man on the totem pole. He has to play beyond the norms of polite in order to get up in the ranks.
I completely agree 100% with you but I'm human & I got annoyed with him! That's all
I'm hoping you just vented here and not to your DH. If you did get annoyed at him and made it known, you really need to work on learning to control your emotions. That type of stuff will kill marriages.
Anonymous
11/13/2013 17:23
Subject: husband rant!
Anonymous wrote:Here's the thing OP. Your husanI 's best friend offered him his seat at the table. He didn't say "I'll be out of the country so my wife and I can't make it. Why don't you and your wife take our seats?" No. He implied that he only had one seat at the table to begin with. Your husband appears smart enough to know not to say to the uncle "hey, can I bring my wife too?!?" He's low man on the totem pole. He has to play beyond the norms of polite in order to get up in the ranks.
I completely agree 100% with you but I'm human & I got annoyed with him! That's all
Anonymous
11/13/2013 17:23
Subject: husband rant!
Anonymous wrote:Here's the thing OP. Your husband's best friend offered him his seat at the table. He didn't say "I'll be out of the country so my wife and I can't make it. Why don't you and your wife take our seats?" No. He implied that he only had one seat at the table to begin with. Your husband appears smart enough to know not to say to the uncle "hey, can I bring my wife too?!?" He's low man on the totem pole. He has to play beyond the norms of polite in order to get up in the ranks.
Exactly. The sponsor gets 10 seats but the other 9 may already be filled. I would not assume two seats were open - IME, usually the seats are filled or donated back to the organization since the guest list is due several days before the event.
Anonymous
11/13/2013 17:21
Subject: Re:husband rant!
Anonymous wrote:What is USMLE? US medical license exam?
Yes, I'm a surgeon, at least back home I was. Now being sponsored to do my residency here just need to finish my last exam.
Anonymous
11/13/2013 17:21
Subject: husband rant!
Here's the thing OP. Your husband's best friend offered him his seat at the table. He didn't say "I'll be out of the country so my wife and I can't make it. Why don't you and your wife take our seats?" No. He implied that he only had one seat at the table to begin with. Your husband appears smart enough to know not to say to the uncle "hey, can I bring my wife too?!?" He's low man on the totem pole. He has to play beyond the norms of polite in order to get up in the ranks.
Anonymous
11/13/2013 17:18
Subject: Re:husband rant!
What is USMLE? US medical license exam?