I guess I don't see the point in trying to find something you want for a birthday gift. You listed a few things you want (UGGs, perfume, a weekend away, ipad ). So just....tell him that? I'll admit I'm not big on my own birthday and DH and I always do a weekend away somewhere because that's what I want.

A nice, thick, fluffy bathrobe for the winter, with matching slippers.

I would enjoy a 30 day vacation that included a spa and yoga wellness retreat for 10 days, then say 20 days spent sight seeing/fine dining/local living in whatever country/city I was interested in at the time. The last days would be spent at an extra luxiourious villa/hotel/resort.

If you don’t know what you want, why not just focus on your contentment with what you have, rather than trying to come up with another object to buy?

Because someone wanted to talk about a vibrator.

This thread is 11 years old and the op is getting ready to turn 40. Why was it resurrected? There's nothing particularly interesting about it.

I don't think I would have the guts to put something like this on my wish list!! Lol. I probably end up asking for a gift card and then going to buy it myself... but to each their own

Anonymous wrote:Hitatchi Magic Wand

I got a Michael Kors watch I love

Nespresso maker.

You think it needs to be special, but in ten years you won't remember what you got. Just pick something you like and don't turn it into a big to-do.

Skydiving?

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Anonymous wrote:Chanel Chance perfume. My dh goes nuts when I wear it.

Not OP but duly noted

It does smell heavenly. I need to buy some too.

Anonymous wrote:I think new expensive uggs and perfume are perfectly great birthday gifts. Why aren't they special enough? What kinds of things do you usually get?

This

Oh brother, don't get uggs for your birthday. How depressing on so many levels.

07:15--my wand is my best friend. Everyday.