Anonymous wrote:I heard of one case of prepping 5 years ago. The parent was called to the school. I didn't prep because I believe it sends the wrong message to my child, but now I hear about it regularly and just shake my head. I think other parents assume that I prep because I'm Asian, but I truly hope that the school knows that my kid was not prepped.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I know of one person that prepped their kids -- I suspect in certain groups it is more common. Mostly it is people who come from societies with limited resources where "failing" a single test dooms you to a life of poverty.
I agree.
I think it is a very small, concentrated area where the "test prep" is happening, and not the county at large.
Totally disagree. I'm across the county in Springfield area and there are tons of prepping (not preppy) parents here too.
That's interesting. How do you know? Do parents talk about it openly, or are there advertisements for test prep classes? Neither of those is evident around here, so I'm curious.
PP here; it's openly spoken about. I don't see advertisements, but word-of-mouth makes it all common knowledge. Which area of the county are you in?
In Springfield? Really? I beg to differ.
The biggest topic is whether or not to stay at the base school or go to the center, because the schools are so uniformly great and the kids get to stay with their friends.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I know of one person that prepped their kids -- I suspect in certain groups it is more common. Mostly it is people who come from societies with limited resources where "failing" a single test dooms you to a life of poverty.
I agree.
I think it is a very small, concentrated area where the "test prep" is happening, and not the county at large.
Totally disagree. I'm across the county in Springfield area and there are tons of prepping (not preppy) parents here too.
That's interesting. How do you know? Do parents talk about it openly, or are there advertisements for test prep classes? Neither of those is evident around here, so I'm curious.
PP here; it's openly spoken about. I don't see advertisements, but word-of-mouth makes it all common knowledge. Which area of the county are you in?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
There are one-two really bitter parents on this forum who think that their kid did not get a fair chance at AAP because other people (usually blaming Asians) prepped their kids. According to these posters, it is scores and scores of parents who do this. They have first hand knowledge that all these families are gaming the system, except for themselves![]()
You can tell the tone and writing style of the main posters crying foul. Then it gets parroted, embellished, etc, a big game of telephone where people hear that everyone is testing.
In reality, with three fcps kids (one a current 2nd grader and another in a center), I have never heard of a single family that actually prepped for these things, beyond what they would have done whether or not this test was happening. There is the kid who complains about being forced to do Kumon for math (mom let him drop it this year), and the handful of kids who go to Chinese school every week, but no giant test prep machine.
It is mostly a bunch of manufactured drama by a few posters with buckets of sour grapes.
Oh no, it's you again -- the poster who likes to insist that there are only "one or two" parents claiming that many parents prep. It's so amusing to hear you try and convince everyone else that there couldn't possibly be more than a couple of people who feel differently than you. At any rate, at our center school, it is common knowledge that prepping parents send their kids to a certain woman's home where she holds prepping classes for the CogAt. It's no secret and lots of families do this; she guarantees the children in her classes will get into AAP. And guess what? They do. Some are Asian, but most aren't (I don't know where you're getting that whole Asian remark? Tons of non-Asian kids in AAP at our school). So you go right ahead and pretend it's a bunch of "manufactured drama". Hey, whatever makes you feel better.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I know of one person that prepped their kids -- I suspect in certain groups it is more common. Mostly it is people who come from societies with limited resources where "failing" a single test dooms you to a life of poverty.
I agree.
I think it is a very small, concentrated area where the "test prep" is happening, and not the county at large.
Totally disagree. I'm across the county in Springfield area and there are tons of prepping (not preppy) parents here too.
That's interesting. How do you know? Do parents talk about it openly, or are there advertisements for test prep classes? Neither of those is evident around here, so I'm curious.
Anonymous wrote:I don't think there is massive prep for AAP testing. That changes as kids get older - there is some serious prep for the SAT, for example. And in my view - having taken numerous professional exams, as well as the SAT and grad school equivalents, you'd be foolish to walk into something like the SAT cold, with no prep whatsoever. There is a continuum of prep, depending on the age and test, and that is normal. There are some outliers who would prep massively for any test.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I know of one person that prepped their kids -- I suspect in certain groups it is more common. Mostly it is people who come from societies with limited resources where "failing" a single test dooms you to a life of poverty.
I agree.
I think it is a very small, concentrated area where the "test prep" is happening, and not the county at large.
Totally disagree. I'm across the county in Springfield area and there are tons of prepping (not preppy) parents here too.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I know of one person that prepped their kids -- I suspect in certain groups it is more common. Mostly it is people who come from societies with limited resources where "failing" a single test dooms you to a life of poverty.
I agree.
I think it is a very small, concentrated area where the "test prep" is happening, and not the county at large.
) parents here too. Anonymous wrote:I know of one person that prepped their kids -- I suspect in certain groups it is more common. Mostly it is people who come from societies with limited resources where "failing" a single test dooms you to a life of poverty.
Anonymous wrote:21:31, is the area you're talking about Great Falls?