Anonymous wrote:and please, if you're interested in someone, don't pull a flake and disappear (forget, too busy, etc.). had a friend who experienced this with a very attractive woman - she contacted him again after 3 months of being 'busy' - he had moved on. weirdest thing was that she met him later again in a social setting - he was with his SO and she was still alone and lamented over shoula, woulda, coulda.