Anonymous
10/01/2013 22:24
Subject: Re:Ex boyfriend asking for pictures....
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why did you break up after dating for 5 years?
OP here: Things weren't going good with us for a while and we were starting to drift off and I found out he was on a dating website which is how he met his current gf.
There you have it. Stop talking to him!
OP here: I get that but the "immature" part of me is thinking this is some karma for this girl. She knew he had a gf and kept talking to him and didn't care. It almost feels good to know he is coming to me for these things and she has NO CLUE..just like I had NO CLUE when they were talking.
Anonymous
10/01/2013 22:21
Subject: Ex boyfriend asking for pictures....
Anonymous wrote:So my boyfriend and I have been dating almost a year and a half. We have been good friends and our relationship has been getting stronger over the last 6 months. We talk on and off all day, and I really love him. I think he's the one.
Dilemma: I just moved to TX for graduate school with him. Over the last couple of weeks, he has become more distant. I knew he'd been reaching out to his ex--they were together like 5 years, but it's been over since before we got together. Last night, I saw his messages on his phone (left out on the table) with him asking her to send "pictures" like she "used to." I feel like I don't matter to him! We usually have a great sex life, but we've been a little stressed out with the move and our new job and grad program. I'm even starting to realize that at night before bed, when I thought he was going out to have a smoke, he's probably been calling her! I'm not sure what to think?
He's a slime ball, right? And so is she--she knows he's in a committed relationship with me. Maybe they do deserve each other.
OP Here: Here's the thing. He was talking to this girl online when him and I were still together. I found out about her, found her # and called her up and told her about him and I. She DID NOT CARE. So sure, he's in a "committed relationship" but it's with a girl who knew he used to be with me and didn't care. Part of me enjoys the fact that he's coming to me for these pics because it's kind of like karma for her.
Anonymous
10/01/2013 22:20
Subject: Re:Ex boyfriend asking for pictures....
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why did you break up after dating for 5 years?
OP here: Things weren't going good with us for a while and we were starting to drift off and I found out he was on a dating website which is how he met his current gf.
There you have it. Stop talking to him!
Anonymous
10/01/2013 22:20
Subject: Re:Ex boyfriend asking for pictures....
Anonymous wrote:Wonder what he plans on doing with those pictures? Posting them online? Sending them to friends?
OP Here: I do not include ANY face in these pics. He got a boob pic with NOTHING that would show who I was and also a below the waist pic that again...wouldn't show who I was. I'm not that dumb.
Anonymous
10/01/2013 22:18
Subject: Re:Ex boyfriend asking for pictures....
Anonymous wrote:Why did you break up after dating for 5 years?
OP here: Things weren't going good with us for a while and we were starting to drift off and I found out he was on a dating website which is how he met his current gf.
Anonymous
10/01/2013 22:17
Subject: Ex boyfriend asking for pictures....
Anonymous wrote:Are we talking "naughty" pictures?
OP here; Yes
Anonymous
10/01/2013 22:17
Subject: Ex boyfriend asking for pictures....
Anonymous wrote:Have you asked him directly? This sounds like a classic case of eating your cake and having it too. If you haven't reconciled your relationship after 1.5 years apart, chances are, dude doesn't want to get back together. But since you are still providing that "emotional -soon to be physical- cake", he will be a fool to turn it down.
OP here: Yes, I have asked him directly why he wants pictures and his response is "why wouldn't I?". When I ask about his girlfriend and what she would think he says "it doesn't matter".
Anonymous
10/01/2013 18:35
Subject: Ex boyfriend asking for pictures....
Anonymous wrote:So my ex and I broke up about a year and a half ago ( we dated for 5 years prior to that). We have stayed friends and have become closer over the last 6 months. We talk 2-3 times a day and yes, I do still have SOME feelings.
Why do you say you have SOME feelings? Is that supposed to be different than saying you still have feelings for him and hope to get back together? If you didn't have feelings for this jerk, this wouldn't be effecting you this much.
Anonymous
10/01/2013 17:41
Subject: Re:Ex boyfriend asking for pictures....
Anonymous wrote:Wow OP, consider yourself the lucky one that you got out of that relationship and are free of that rat. I feel so sorry for his current lady. She has to live w/that scumbag.
Look at how he is treating her. He is acting this way to her behind her back. Imagine what he did to you behind yours for those five years. I shudder to think.
If he is so darn unhappy w/his current relationship, and she doesn't matter to him one iota, then why doesn't he just break things off w/her? Uh...Because he has no balls. He doesn't want to be alone. He wants his cake and he wants to eat it too...AND lick the icing.
I wonder what he tells her about you.....
Don't be delusional OP.
He is w/HER...not YOU. He has made his choice obvious. If he wanted you, he would be w/you.
Sounds like he is just playing you along w/her.
Sure, you can play his game...After all, it does take two to play right?!\
This OP, frickin' this x 1,000. Do you really think he is only playing her?
I wouldn't send him any photos however. Oh snap! Yes, I would.
I would send one of my middle finger.
And another one of me making out w/the sexiest guy I can find.
That would be awesome.
Anonymous
10/01/2013 17:02
Subject: Ex boyfriend asking for pictures....
well, when you were dating him back in the day, OP, he was most likely screwing around on you too, right?
Lose the loser
Lose the loser
Anonymous
10/01/2013 16:54
Subject: Ex boyfriend asking for pictures....
eww, both of you.
Anonymous
10/01/2013 16:46
Subject: Ex boyfriend asking for pictures....
Send him a picture of your sphincter.
Anonymous
10/01/2013 16:41
Subject: Re:Ex boyfriend asking for pictures....
Wow OP, consider yourself the lucky one that you got out of that relationship and are free of that rat. I feel so sorry for his current lady. She has to live w/that scumbag.
Look at how he is treating her. He is acting this way to her behind her back. Imagine what he did to you behind yours for those five years. I shudder to think.
If he is so darn unhappy w/his current relationship, and she doesn't matter to him one iota, then why doesn't he just break things off w/her? Uh...Because he has no balls. He doesn't want to be alone. He wants his cake and he wants to eat it too...AND lick the icing.
I wonder what he tells her about you.....
Don't be delusional OP.
He is w/HER...not YOU. He has made his choice obvious. If he wanted you, he would be w/you.
Sounds like he is just playing you along w/her.
Sure, you can play his game...After all, it does take two to play right?!
I wouldn't send him any photos however. Oh snap! Yes, I would.
I would send one of my middle finger.
And another one of me making out w/the sexiest guy I can find.
That would be awesome.
Look at how he is treating her. He is acting this way to her behind her back. Imagine what he did to you behind yours for those five years. I shudder to think.
If he is so darn unhappy w/his current relationship, and she doesn't matter to him one iota, then why doesn't he just break things off w/her? Uh...Because he has no balls. He doesn't want to be alone. He wants his cake and he wants to eat it too...AND lick the icing.
I wonder what he tells her about you.....
Don't be delusional OP.
He is w/HER...not YOU. He has made his choice obvious. If he wanted you, he would be w/you.
Sounds like he is just playing you along w/her.
Sure, you can play his game...After all, it does take two to play right?!
I wouldn't send him any photos however. Oh snap! Yes, I would.
I would send one of my middle finger.
And another one of me making out w/the sexiest guy I can find.
That would be awesome.
Anonymous
10/01/2013 16:40
Subject: Re:Ex boyfriend asking for pictures....
Anonymous wrote:Wonder what he plans on doing with those pictures? Posting them online? Sending them to friends?
+1
Anonymous
10/01/2013 16:20
Subject: Re:Ex boyfriend asking for pictures....
Anonymous wrote:Why did you break up after dating for 5 years?
This is the key.