jindc wrote:well, the whole "induction/magnesium" sounds completely awful - at some point, wouldn't I just rather have a c-section?
12:04 PP here -- I've heard from other pregnant women who were on magnesium for a long time to prevent pre-term labor and they didn't think it was that bad, but for me it was purely torture. I really wanted to labor vaginally, so I pushed for induction that day, and in retrospect I wish I had not done that since I was set up to fail from the start -- once they started the magnesium, they wouldn't let me stand or walk, and there was no way I could really progress (although, at least I can say I tried everything I could to be able to have a vaginal birth). But by the time I was admitted, my headache was torture, and the magnesium made it 100 times worse. Plus, the magnesium made it feel like it was 500 degrees in my head. (For the 12 hours I labored before giving in to a C-section, my husband put ice on my face and forehead, and I remember saying to him, "Why is the ice WARM? Can't you get any cold ice?"...meanwhile, his hands were blue from being in an ice bucket all day.)
The worst thing about the magnesium is that I had to be on it for at least 12 hours postpartum (apparently that's standard with Pre-E), which ended up dragging out to 20 hours, so I was separated from the baby that whole time, and it was awful awful awful. So if you can avoid magnesium, do it. In the end, I gave in to have the C not because the labor pains hurt or the baby was in distress, but because I couldn't stand the pain from the headache worsened by the magnesium, plus the threat that the magnesium would need to be continued for so much longer, so the longer I labored, the further away my reprieve from headache pain would be.
That said, I think you are 100% correct that your doc is making weight-based assumptions. I fired my first OB office because they immediately assumed I'd have GD and need a C-section. A C is no picnic -- you are right to want to avoid the cascade of interventions if you can!!!