Anonymous
Post 09/26/2013 07:40     Subject: The real reason for our infertility
Anonymous wrote:how long has he had the gay?


That is not a fair comment. Some guys do things differently.
Anonymous
Post 09/26/2013 07:38     Subject: The real reason for our infertility
I suggested the Instead cups and while I think the diva cup could work I think the Instead cup might be better because it would give DH a bigger target to aim at and it's fairly shallow so the sperm will be closer to your cervix than with the diva cup. Just my thoughts...
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2013 21:28     Subject: The real reason for our infertility
how long has he had the gay?
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2013 21:26     Subject: The real reason for our infertility
You know, I heard once that this is common among law officers. OP, if that's your husband maybe have him checked out by a psychologist? Job stressors are pretty huge in that line of work.
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2013 20:39     Subject: The real reason for our infertility
Anonymous wrote:OP, do you live in suburban Maryland?


Yep
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2013 20:33     Subject: The real reason for our infertility
OP, do you live in suburban Maryland?
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2013 20:18     Subject: The real reason for our infertility
Anonymous wrote:You can absolutely be successful this way. Google self-insemination. Good luck!


ITA. There are also midwives who are skilled at assisting insemination - they help a lot of LGBTQ couples get pregnant. I am not in the DC area, so I don't have local recommendations.
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2013 19:45     Subject: Re:The real reason for our infertility
Some woman on baby center got pregnant by having anal sex and her husband finished by ejaculating in her diva cup which she then inserted into her vagina. So yes, at home "Methods" work.
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2013 19:35     Subject: The real reason for our infertility
Op here. Thanks for the support. I use the Divacup. Will this work like the Instead?
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2013 07:08     Subject: The real reason for our infertility
Use the instead cups. Have him finish in the cup and then insert. Just make sure you push it all the way back so it's over the opening of your cervix.
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2013 21:10     Subject: Re:The real reason for our infertility
It's not that weird. Guys can get used to one position or grip or activity for orgasm and train their dick to just do that. It can be retrained, but it's work. Just use a turkey baster. If you are happy with your sex life, except for the baby thing, then do what you need to do to get a baby, and don't worry about it.
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2013 21:06     Subject: The real reason for our infertility
Can u watch porn while doing it? Will that help?
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2013 20:57     Subject: The real reason for our infertility
If a turkey baster works and brings you your child, go for it! Best wishes for success.
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2013 20:56     Subject: The real reason for our infertility
Yes! I can vouch for the same reason you mentioned, OP. Why not give self-insemination a try for a few cycles before doing something more costly, and possibly more invasive? It worked for me! It's not a big deal, really, it's ok!
Anonymous
Post 09/24/2013 20:54     Subject: The real reason for our infertility
Yup. You can do it. Sometimes when people use a traditional surrogate they do it (particularly since clinics don't want to touch traditional surrogacy). Here is some info:

http://www.surromomsonline.com/support/showthread.php?126023-A-Brief-Guide-to-Home-Inseminations