Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:$1 mil lump sum as a bonus for being the key to winning a huge case. Not life changing, but a nice cushion for a young associate.
I love how $1M isn't life changing.
It doesn't allow a youngish person to retire comfortably. It COULD be life changing, depending on your lifestyle and income, but if you are nowhere near retirement, are already living comfortably and live someplace with a very high COL, once you've paid the taxes I wouldn't call it life changing.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I had an older cousin around my dad's age who I thought was a magician. I knew that one time we ran into him at a hospital while there for blood tests and I thought he went there to do magic for sick kids. Then when I was an older teenager he got divorced from his wife (the way we were related), and the family sort of blacklisted him. He moved to Florida. After college, I moved to Florida, and looked him up. We got together for lunch and I guess now that I was an adult, he felt he could tell me about what had been going on.
My cousin (by blood) had been a total bitch to him, and cut him off from his grandkids and his daughter. We talked a lot that day, and I stayed in touch with him for the entire three years I lived there, getting together about once a month. When my parents came to visit I got them together too.
After I moved, we fell out of touch a little bit, only sometimes talking via Facebook. Then he died. He left me several million dollars as the only member of the family who didn't push him away. It turned out that he invented some medical thing - some tweak thing for xrays? He was able to retire by selling the patent and when he retired he just did magic because that's what he liked.
My life did not change overnight. We didn't want to be stupid about it, so we actually sat on the money for a year to let the shock wear off.
Great story! Now that's a real windfall. Totally unexpected money.
+1 You and your cousin sound like great people.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:DH is working on a project that could change our lives financially. We are not quitting any day jobs or doing anything different, just working really hard and crossing our fingers, but can't help hoping...
Did it ever happen to you? How? Stocks that shot up? Invention? Inheritance? Business idea?
How much?
Did you life change overnight? How? New house? Car? Quit your job?
Thanks for any stories. I'd love to hear some happy tales.
In terms of money and possessions, Yes, I consider us rich. We have a networth of ~$1.7M from house and 401k savings. We have a decent amoutn saving for kids college. Our HHI is $150-$180k with one income for the past 10 or so years. Our children are in HS.
Anonymous wrote:DH is working on a project that could change our lives financially. We are not quitting any day jobs or doing anything different, just working really hard and crossing our fingers, but can't help hoping...
Did it ever happen to you? How? Stocks that shot up? Invention? Inheritance? Business idea?
How much?
Did you life change overnight? How? New house? Car? Quit your job?
Thanks for any stories. I'd love to hear some happy tales.