I get those when I go to adult sites or even adult forums and I'm female.

That's why I wouldn't forgive a cheater. Once trust is gone, it's gone.

The real issue is that you're married to a cheater, and you're living in fear. You're hyper vigilant, and you snoop on him.

I'm so sorry. I was there once. It's a terrible place to be.

Well there are such things as sex addiction, and porn is not where it stops- addicts arrange for local meetups and such. But its in the form of emails and chats, not pop ups.

OP the affair issue sounds awful. Please get some (more_ counseling for yourself and decide if you really want to stay with someone who did that to you. You dont have to, you know. Its ok not to trust him. He doesnt exactly deserve yout trust.

Excuse me, gotta go. Jenna is waiting for me. Bye!

I'm a married woman and I get ads all the time about MILFs who are supposedly interested in meeting me. I really cannot figure out how I got on that list...

Anonymous wrote:Both you and your husband are disgusting.

I'm disgusting, too!! I love porn! I don't love all the spam pop ups about girls wanting to fuck me tonight.

OP, this is not a red flag. It's just not.

PP: Chill out.

Both you and your husband are disgusting.

Anonymous wrote:Your husband needs to do a cookies dump after jacking off.

Lol.

Although the OP said she wasn't upset about the porn, just the friendfinder ads. I don't look at porn but a buddy who does says those pop up ads come up all the time. Since your husband cheated once, you have a reason to be suspicious. But his alibi checks out with me. Er, I mean that buddy of mine who looks at porn.