Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If the internist is plying OP's dad with medicine he doesn't need (or not giving him meds he needs), we have a current, ongoing fraud/crime/what have you.
You could have your dad set up a trust for you/your siblings that his new wife cannot touch but depending on the marriage, the new wife could scream bloody murder.
An elder lawyer can sort through everything; as you say this is a complicated issue.
Yes, complex and forgot to mention that internist's ex is a lawyer.
Anonymous wrote:If the internist is plying OP's dad with medicine he doesn't need (or not giving him meds he needs), we have a current, ongoing fraud/crime/what have you.
You could have your dad set up a trust for you/your siblings that his new wife cannot touch but depending on the marriage, the new wife could scream bloody murder.
An elder lawyer can sort through everything; as you say this is a complicated issue.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Attorney and report to the medical licensing board.
I thought of that but the most guilty one is dead. I have a feeling that they will tell me that there is nothing they can do. This whole thing is so icky.
Anonymous wrote:Did Internist ever treat your father?
Get a lawyer regardless to deal with dementia issue. Makes no difference is dr or not. More important if she was treating him or not but more importantly when dementia was documented.