I'd like it. Can always use a nip or tuck here and there.

Anonymous wrote:
I would get the surgery and then divorce the sob. It would be the beginning of the end. Some other man would get to enjoy the "improved body".


you sound like a keeper

Actually, I am a keeper precisely because I would tolerate any man suggesting that I need to mutilate my body to attractive. I am not opposed to plastic surgery (I had a post baby TT), but it has to be because a woman (or man) wants it and not because his or her significant other things it is necessary for them to attractive or reach some ideal. We all get older and no matter how much we exercise, eat right and take care of ourselves the effects of time show up. Any spouse who expect the other to turn back time via surgery is an asshole. OP doesn't state what his motivation is for suggesting this for his wife, but if it is for any reason other than she wants it for herself, he doesn't deserve her.

Anonymous wrote:If your wife has said she wants it, then I would ask her, "did you really mean it when you said.....". If she wants it, then it's OK to buy it for her. You can't just offer.

This is the only way you can hope for this to be successful. Test the waters on this several times before deciding to make the purchase or you risk some very serious wrath.

Out of the blue? I'd be upset!
If he knew I wanted some work done, I'd be thrilled!

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Anonymous wrote:
I would get the surgery and then divorce the sob. It would be the beginning of the end. Some other man would get to enjoy the "improved body".


you sound like a keeper

Ay many who thinks his wife needs a money makeover is an ass and doesn't deserve her. If a woman chooses surgery for herself that is another story. The men I know who might propose such a thing should take a look in the mirror.

Anonymous wrote:I would get the surgery and then divorce the sob. It would be the beginning of the end. Some other man would get to enjoy the "improved body".

you sound like a keeper

I would get the surgery and then divorce the sob. It would be the beginning of the end. Some other man would get to enjoy the "improved body".

I would be really excited - but I've mentioned to my husband things I'd like to have done. If nothing has ever been mentioned, then it might be offensive.

I wouldn't be upset, but I wouldn't want to spend the money on it either.

if you knew it what something I wanted then no. I actually asked my husband for one when I turn 40-couple more years...

Anonymous wrote:Not only would I be offended, I might never get over it.

Let me ask you this: how would you feel if your DW gave you a plastic surgery makeover for a bday present?

this

I got new tits for my birthday! I had wanted them for so long after I finished breastfeeding my last child. Both DH and I are home today working and I'm running around braless in my tight white tank top and it is driving him nuts. We love it. Best present ever.

Anonymous wrote:If my husband called me Mommy, he'd need a new face.

Well that's what they call it for mom's
http://www.mesbahimd.com/body-surgery-virginia/mommy-makeover/

If your wife has said she wants it, then I would ask her, "did you really mean it when you said.....". If she wants it, then it's OK to buy it for her. You can't just offer.

all depends on whether or not it has been discussed.

Out of the blue, expect all the hostility that is on display.
if it something that has been talked about. you definitely will get a better response.

Also since it is not a pair of shoes, do a LOT of research before buying it.