Anonymous wrote:I was pregnant (due in late May). So they did indeed have plenty of time to find a sub, as I started the school year off pregnant. Furthermore, he had only about a month with my freshman and maybe a week with my seniors. That's not terribly long.
You're surprised that a sub had trouble controlling an AP class of SENIORS AFTER the AP Exam had taken place? Are you kidding me? They've all checked out at that point. I'm surprised they bothered to show up for class.
Nothing's worse than Seniors in late May. I know. I've taught them.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:is this a clown question?
2nd. Ever heard of rolling with the punches?? Just dealing with shit as it comes?? Shit usually works out in the long run, doesn't it?
yea...why do we try to make a non-problem into a problem
personally i have enough real s*** to deal with to not MAKE UP SOME S***
+100.
Give my kid a substitute every day for I care.He is in the same school in the same classroom with same kids...
That's really a simplistic approach to take, as your kid can indeed lose quite a bit of instructional time necessary to prepare him/her for the following year or course. You can't expect a kid to excel in English 10 when English 9 was a disaster. Skill building is very important.
But if that's your feeling, then at least save a chunk of money for a tutor.
Yes, that's how I feel, and I am the tutor. Just arrived from Europe with bunch of school books for 1st grader.I find it interesting to see what they study there at the same age.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:is this a clown question?
2nd. Ever heard of rolling with the punches?? Just dealing with shit as it comes?? Shit usually works out in the long run, doesn't it?
yea...why do we try to make a non-problem into a problem
personally i have enough real s*** to deal with to not MAKE UP SOME S***
+100.
Give my kid a substitute every day for I care.He is in the same school in the same classroom with same kids...
That's really a simplistic approach to take, as your kid can indeed lose quite a bit of instructional time necessary to prepare him/her for the following year or course. You can't expect a kid to excel in English 10 when English 9 was a disaster. Skill building is very important.
But if that's your feeling, then at least save a chunk of money for a tutor.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:is this a clown question?
2nd. Ever heard of rolling with the punches?? Just dealing with shit as it comes?? Shit usually works out in the long run, doesn't it?
yea...why do we try to make a non-problem into a problem
personally i have enough real s*** to deal with to not MAKE UP SOME S***
+100.
Give my kid a substitute every day for I care.He is in the same school in the same classroom with same kids...
Anonymous wrote:not to be a Negative Nancy - But my long-term sub was awful! I left the best (very scripted) plans, and he couldn't 1) control my classes and 2) follow my guidelines. It was a disaster. My AP classes - seniors! - were challenging to him.
So while they may be paid more, that doesn't mean they're any better!
I imagine your situation is not the norm--if you had to go on leave unexpectedly, then I can understand if you didn't have the opportunity to vet the sub properly. But it sounds like in OP's case, since they already know they will begin the year with a long-term sub, then there has been advanced notice to find someone credible.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:is this a clown question?
2nd. Ever heard of rolling with the punches?? Just dealing with shit as it comes?? Shit usually works out in the long run, doesn't it?
yea...why do we try to make a non-problem into a problem
personally i have enough real s*** to deal with to not MAKE UP SOME S***
not to be a Negative Nancy - But my long-term sub was awful! I left the best (very scripted) plans, and he couldn't 1) control my classes and 2) follow my guidelines. It was a disaster. My AP classes - seniors! - were challenging to him.
So while they may be paid more, that doesn't mean they're any better!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Sorry - this has hurt my DD in MS big time. Both in 6th grade and 8th grade
Her Math teacher did not take a long leave of absence. What she did instead is take leave from day to day and made an appearance every so often just for a day. so this allowed her not to go on long term leave. This went on for months after months after months. So the subs my DD got were on a daily basis...uninterested middle aged men with starbucks coffee cups and Sudoku books in hand.
Eventually - she went for long term leave and a very substandard long term sub was found.
The same teacher pulled the same stunt after 2 years again.
And in the summer she applied and got transferred to another MCPS MS. Where I am sure she is doing the same thing.
Maybe she has a child or spouse who is severely ill at home...maybe something bad is in her life. I have sympathy for whatever her situation may be in life...I just thought that this was a very horrible thing to do to her students. Anyways, Karma will come and bite her someday.
So - my answer to any situation where there is long term sub ...or prolonged use of short term sub is occurring is to transfer the child.
3 subject areas to be particularly vary about is Math, Science and Foreign Language.
Which one is it? You have sympathy or you think it was a horrible thing to do?
I had a school year where my child was really sick -- like specialists, feeding tube, multiple hospitalizations sick. Despite a special needs childcare for medically fragile kids, there were times when I was out and my kids had subs. To make matters worse, I had many of the same kids who had had a sub the year before when I was on maternity leave. I felt awful about it, but I'm really not sure what you think I could have done differently.
I also think that the notion that a teacher who is missing work, because they have cancer, or a sick child, or whatever, will have karma bite them in the future. It's not like those things aren't happening right now.
Anonymous wrote:OP, what grade are we talking about? Seems like in elementary school, it's fine, but in middle/high school, it could be a challenge. My DH will be leaving his foreign language classes for 6 weeks this fall for child care leave, and the process of finding an "approved" long term sub was extensive. He will be providing a framework for all the lessons and the sub will also be getting support from the foreign language team. They don't let just anyone roll in and be a long term sub, and they get paid more than regular day-to-day subs.