Anonymous
Post 06/11/2013 16:05     Subject: Would this upset you?

No this wouldn't upset me. It's just a picture. On Facebook. Why do people take that site so seriously? She thanked you and seemed grateful. That's what's important.
Anonymous
Post 06/11/2013 15:31     Subject: Re:Would this upset you?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here again. The bachelorette party being at my house was not my idea; in fact, it was the bride's request when her sister backed out. I really didnt "kick out" my husband and kids; my husband pretty much volunteered the house when his sister was in a bind.


This is what happens when you go overboard for someone. Sounds like you did it for yourself.


Op, i don't know where this poster is getting this from. It doesn't sound like that at all. It sounds like you did a very nice thing.
Anonymous
Post 06/11/2013 14:34     Subject: Re:Would this upset you?

It would hurt my feeling also. But sometimes when you do a lot for someone, they take you for granted. Probably she loved the smiles in one picture (maybe you took it) and just said oh this one. fb can be very hurtful in inadvertant ways.
Anonymous
Post 06/11/2013 14:25     Subject: Re:Would this upset you?

Anonymous wrote:OP here again. The bachelorette party being at my house was not my idea; in fact, it was the bride's request when her sister backed out. I really didnt "kick out" my husband and kids; my husband pretty much volunteered the house when his sister was in a bind.


This is what happens when you go overboard for someone. Sounds like you did it for yourself.
Anonymous
Post 06/11/2013 14:22     Subject: Re:Would this upset you?

OP here again. The bachelorette party being at my house was not my idea; in fact, it was the bride's request when her sister backed out. I really didnt "kick out" my husband and kids; my husband pretty much volunteered the house when his sister was in a bind.
Anonymous
Post 06/11/2013 13:44     Subject: Would this upset you?

Anyone else see bridesmaids? I totally picture OP being the one who took over all these duties from the maid of honor. Hell,even the wholr drrssthing is taken from Bridesmaids!
Anonymous
Post 06/11/2013 13:44     Subject: Re:Would this upset you?

OP again. Yes, she gave a gift as well as a nice card. Thanks for all of the comments. I needed someone to provide some empathy on this and say they understood how I felt.