OP- lets us know how the testing turns out! Good luck!

Regardless of how it was phrased I tend to agree. I've been reading op's posts for weeks and she clearly needs therapy on how to deal with her frustrations and stress levels. I tend to think the infertility/crazy comment was sarcasm.

Anonymous wrote:It is way over the top to be wishing bad things on the families of your doctor. Encouraging this type of thing isn't helpful to op.

There is also nothing wrong with therapy, it can be a great tool.

The suggestions for therapy, which may be useful, were not presented productively. Telling her to "chill" and saying all infertile patients are crazy are not helpful ways of suggesting therapy.

It is way over the top to be wishing bad things on the families of your doctor. Encouraging this type of thing isn't helpful to op.

There is also nothing wrong with therapy, it can be a great tool.

Anonymous wrote:OP glad they are testing the embryos. Good for you for sticking to your guns. I don't think people, drs included, always think about the physical and emotional ramifications of miscarriage. Be strong.

Thanks, I'm out of strength and just moving forward on the fumes of faith. I'm trusting statistics now, not any doctor's judgment. That's the only reason I have hope. Because it's not really up to the doctors. It's a numbers game and testing ups my odds by a LOT of choosing the right embryo.

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Anonymous wrote:Infertility patients are crazy!!!!!

You might feel a little crazy too if you went through what OP has been through. You lack compassion, empathy, and good judgement, which is clear by this post. Let's see how sane you stay when life throws you a major curveball. Hopefully people will be nicer to you than you have been to this woman.

Stay strong OP.

OP, thanks for the support, but at this point I just discount posters/people like this. And you're sweet to hope people will be nicer to this poster when he/she gets her curveball (everyone does)--I don't share your good wishes. Let him/her reap what he/she sows.

I do wonder why people like this come to a board where infertility is discussed, but figuring it out is not worth my time. The support and compassion and pure information exchange (since the industry is far from transparent and forthcoming) far outweigh the bad. . . .