Anonymous wrote:Why be so nasty? We ARE going to get married. It is a fact that we are a family. I don't need a piece of paper to make me a stepmother. Step mom's deserve respect whether or not they are married yet. She needs to learn and accept this.

You know who else deserves respect? Your boyfriend's child's mom. She enrolled him in camp, and calendared it, so that your boyfriend would know when it was happening. As for how she feels about whether you work or stay home or what, that's pretty much irrelevant to this particular question. Your boyfriend didn't read the calendar right. That's the issue. It has nothing to do with her, except that you're desperate to make her look like a horrible person.

I say this as the ex who makes the camp plans and calendars them properly.

Anonymous wrote:Why can't she be flexible? She's just jealous. And spiteful.

Why can't the OP be flexible?

Beach houses are available to rent all summer. A specific camp with a specific focus or specific coaches won't be. It seems like, given that, and given the fact that BF made the mistake, he's the one who should make the change.

OP, tell the truth. Do you have any kids?

Anonymous wrote:OK - this is getting good and I hope you continue to write in. You have now gone from the girlfriend to a stay at home mom with step children who's bf/dh can't read a calendar and wants to spend a week at the beach and is mad at the ex wife who has to work.

Keep writing - PLEASE!

Oh God not another confused troll. Yes, OP, please explain to us how you are a SAHM mom that gets to date.

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Anonymous wrote:Why be so nasty? We ARE going to get married. It is a fact that we are a family. I don't need a piece of paper to make me a stepmother. Step mom's deserve respect whether or not they are married yet. She needs to learn and accept this.

You need to get a grip! You have been nothing but nasty about your this poor woman. She didn't do anything wrong. Everyone keeps telling you that your baby daddy is in the wrong here but you just can't hear it. I don't even know this woman, but i feel sorry for her because. Her ex picked out a total asshole to step-parent with.

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Anonymous wrote:Why be so nasty? We ARE going to get married. It is a fact that we are a family. I don't need a piece of paper to make me a stepmother. Step mom's deserve respect whether or not they are married yet. She needs to learn and accept this.

There's still time for him to come to his senses. If you send him this thread, that might do it.

Anonymous wrote:Why be so nasty? We ARE going to get married. It is a fact that we are a family. I don't need a piece of paper to make me a stepmother. Step mom's deserve respect whether or not they are married yet. She needs to learn and accept this.

What the hell has she done???

Anonymous wrote:Why be so nasty? We ARE going to get married. It is a fact that we are a family. I don't need a piece of paper to make me a stepmother. Step mom's deserve respect whether or not they are married yet. She needs to learn and accept this.

Accept what? - This Dude (what ever he is) read the calendar wrong. She did nothing wrong. The Child should not miss out on something planned or be late to it because Dude screwed up.

She did nothing to you!!!

Anonymous wrote:Why be so nasty? We ARE going to get married. It is a fact that we are a family. I don't need a piece of paper to make me a stepmother. Step mom's deserve respect whether or not they are married yet. She needs to learn and accept this.

You need to get a grip! You have been nothing but nasty about your this poor woman. She didn't do anything wrong. Everyone keeps telling you that your baby daddy is in the wrong here but you just can't hear it. I don't even know this woman, but i feel sorry for her because. Her ex picked out a total asshole to step-parent with.

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Anonymous wrote:We get so little time to be a family with DSS. What is one week of camp?

Hate to mention this but he is not your DSS.

For what it is worth one week of camp could be crucial - Relationships have established. A whole week of intense information missed and not to mention the cost if not refundable.

But, but, but... she's getting Mother's Day's gifts... so it must count.

Op could be a mother but this child is not her DSS. She could be given gifts but as long as she is a girlfriend this is not her DSS.

Why be so nasty? We ARE going to get married. It is a fact that we are a family. I don't need a piece of paper to make me a stepmother. Step mom's deserve respect whether or not they are married yet. She needs to learn and accept this.

Is this bouquet bride who married the widower?

You sound like a child. She can ruin summer! Wah!

Anonymous wrote:He's not a loser. Don't be hasty to judge someone you don't know. She's just mad that she had to go back to work and I am a SAHM.

The mother's feelings are irrelevant. The fact is that your BF screwed up and wants to fix the problem by depriving his child of something. Why doesn't HE rearrange HIS OWN schedule?

OK - this is getting good and I hope you continue to write in. You have now gone from the girlfriend to a stay at home mom with step children who's bf/dh can't read a calendar and wants to spend a week at the beach and is mad at the ex wife who has to work.

Keep writing - PLEASE!