jsteele wrote:Wow...I am so disappointed right now.

Last week OP posted a problem she was having with her husband. She wrote a detailed and comprehensive post and was excited to hear any advice on what to do. But, I deleted her whole post. Then, she posted this thread:

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/304461.page

I guess she solved the problems with her husband by time-travelling back 10 years and divorcing him so that she would be single and be able to meet this guy.

OP, must time-travel to the future and see how things will work out with this guy. Problem solved!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you were my friend I would smack you up side the head.

Bang the guy 5 more times and move on. It was fun while it lasted. He was just practice to get you out of your 10 year single rut.

If you are still together on June 1st please post so I can yell at you.

We haven't slept together yet. Nor kissed. We've just been talking on the phone and hanging out for coffee and stuff.

Kiss him 5 more times and move on.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you were my friend I would smack you up side the head.

Bang the guy 5 more times and move on. It was fun while it lasted. He was just practice to get you out of your 10 year single rut.

If you are still together on June 1st please post so I can yell at you.

We haven't slept together yet. Nor kissed. We've just been talking on the phone and hanging out for coffee and stuff.

Anonymous wrote:OP, could you at least TRY to be a little less troll-y?

Anonymous wrote:If you were my friend I would smack you up side the head.

Bang the guy 5 more times and move on. It was fun while it lasted. He was just practice to get you out of your 10 year single rut.

If you are still together on June 1st please post so I can yell at you.

Anonymous wrote:PP Here.
What I mean is this is the beginning. Just like any other relationship. You talk for hours on the phone feel giddy, etc. Doesn't me this guy is the one or even remotely compatible. That's just how it is in the beginning. My advice would be since the kids are about to be completely gone, sign up for some dating sites, if not online the ones that organize socials. Get into some hobbies, maybe through MeetUp.com or something like that. You will meet more people and form a better understanding of what you are looking for and what you are/aren't willing to compromise on. This guy has had a lot of shit going on, but most of them are longevity ridden. A second chance would be if he had 1, 2 or even 3 of the things on that list. He has all=disaster. Not worth it. He may be a good guy, but obviously something is desperately wrong with him, maturity, common sense, who knows. This shouldn't be your first relationship back in the game.