Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Here is the DCUM transation of Sanjana's post:
BIL met a woman at DH's work and started dating her, which I had no problem with at first. But at a staff party, I saw some bitchy behavior and I started asking her friends at which point I was inundated with stories as well as told that she currently has a BF, who indeed was looking for her as apparently she hadn't told him about the party. I decided to ask her and I was told by her that yes, she's engaged to a guy. That confirmed my doubts that she was no good.
After the party, BIL wanted to drop her off as she had too much to drink. I disagreed and asked her to leave the same way she came, as if anything happens we are too far to help him. My logic -- drinking/driving girl, with you, sex intimacy -- I did not want any trouble as he was also using DH's van and he had just obtained it after a write-off with another and financially it would be hard to get another as it is DH's bread and butter.
Now the whole thing has been blown out of proportion as MIL says she is tooo good to be lying and we should not interfere. Well, I understand that but I am disturbed by what picture everyone has portrayed about me. Please help with advice!
PP--are you a U.N. translator? You should be paid a lot of money for your services. Excellent work!!!