Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:p.p, it is interesting that you say the schools nowadays do so much. I think that it may have been exactly where things went wrong. It is my view that the parents should be the one who handles these extras and the schools focus on academics as they should be all along. You may work very hard but you probably also have a college degree and can supplement at home. Since when did free museums and zoos help with bad math instruction? I am not saying that there are not bad parents out there. I do believe that the schools are not attempting to narrow the gap the right way.
I disagree with you. Schools do too much? Math isn't the only thing in school but MCPS makes it. No science, no history, nothing taught about how to study. 25min or PE a week, 25min of at a week, 25min or music a week? What too much are they doing? Small percent of grammar.
College Degree has nothing to do with being a parent so that is no excuse.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
So annoying that Valerie Ervin seems to be blaming the "achievement gap" on MCPS. What about talking about the responsibility of parents for a change and getting rid of all these racial categories for measuring performance?
Agree with this. If the parents don't care, there is no way to close this 'achievement gap'. Crazy if they continue to spend more money on this.
It's very rarely because parents don't care. It's usually because they don't have the time and/or resources to help.
So do we have to make them have time or force resources on them? I am sorry but it is YOUR JOB as a parent to make sure your child is succeeding in school and to BE A PARENT to them. There are families out there that have full time working parents (some that work 2 jobs) that make the time. Parents these days CHOOSE to let the schools take on so much more then they should. Teaching, life skills, better eating, exercise, sex ed. I am not saying the schools should not be teaching this but you as parents MUST supplement it. If you take 2-4 hours a week filling your kids with positive influence, teaching them, helping them learn how to study, making them feel important - it WILL make a difference. If you choose to spend that time at Chuckie Cheese, hanging out at the mall, or watching tv/video games, that is NOT the school system's problem. We live in an area with free museums, free zoo, free libraries with free computer use. Tons of resources online, free interpreters, free ESOL classes for kids and adults, highly discounted summer learning help. There is no excuse. I work 40hrs a week and my husband works 60hrs. We have no outside help. We MAKE the time. I am so sick of excuses for the LAZY in all walks of life, which I believe weighs heavily on the "achievement gap."
I always find it amusing when people who have so much in life get so angry at those who don't. You are lucky to have such a good, easy life. Not everyone does. This gap is NOT a question of a bunch of lazy parents who don't care about school. It's about an inability to act on that desire to see their kids do well.
What about a single woman working two jobs to put a roof over her kid's head? She's often not home to make dinner, much less sit over her kid to make sure he does his homework. What about the family that has trouble putting food on the table each day? A third of the kids in MoCo schools qualify for FARMS. They often can't put dinner together, and Manna Food sends home smart sacks for kids who otherwise wouldn't eat on the weekends. School is where they get their most nutritious meals. A perpetually hungry kid often has trouble learning well. If you have ever lived like that, you know a parent's priority becomes food first, and school takes a back seat.
I've lived both sides of the income-achievement gap. It is worlds easier being middle class than poor. There is no comparison.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
So annoying that Valerie Ervin seems to be blaming the "achievement gap" on MCPS. What about talking about the responsibility of parents for a change and getting rid of all these racial categories for measuring performance?
Agree with this. If the parents don't care, there is no way to close this 'achievement gap'. Crazy if they continue to spend more money on this.
It's very rarely because parents don't care. It's usually because they don't have the time and/or resources to help.
So do we have to make them have time or force resources on them? I am sorry but it is YOUR JOB as a parent to make sure your child is succeeding in school and to BE A PARENT to them. There are families out there that have full time working parents (some that work 2 jobs) that make the time. Parents these days CHOOSE to let the schools take on so much more then they should. Teaching, life skills, better eating, exercise, sex ed. I am not saying the schools should not be teaching this but you as parents MUST supplement it. If you take 2-4 hours a week filling your kids with positive influence, teaching them, helping them learn how to study, making them feel important - it WILL make a difference. If you choose to spend that time at Chuckie Cheese, hanging out at the mall, or watching tv/video games, that is NOT the school system's problem. We live in an area with free museums, free zoo, free libraries with free computer use. Tons of resources online, free interpreters, free ESOL classes for kids and adults, highly discounted summer learning help. There is no excuse. I work 40hrs a week and my husband works 60hrs. We have no outside help. We MAKE the time. I am so sick of excuses for the LAZY in all walks of life, which I believe weighs heavily on the "achievement gap."
Anonymous wrote:p.p, it is interesting that you say the schools nowadays do so much. I think that it may have been exactly where things went wrong. It is my view that the parents should be the one who handles these extras and the schools focus on academics as they should be all along. You may work very hard but you probably also have a college degree and can supplement at home. Since when did free museums and zoos help with bad math instruction? I am not saying that there are not bad parents out there. I do believe that the schools are not attempting to narrow the gap the right way.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
So annoying that Valerie Ervin seems to be blaming the "achievement gap" on MCPS. What about talking about the responsibility of parents for a change and getting rid of all these racial categories for measuring performance?
Agree with this. If the parents don't care, there is no way to close this 'achievement gap'. Crazy if they continue to spend more money on this.
It's very rarely because parents don't care. It's usually because they don't have the time and/or resources to help.
So do we have to make them have time or force resources on them? I am sorry but it is YOUR JOB as a parent to make sure your child is succeeding in school and to BE A PARENT to them. There are families out there that have full time working parents (some that work 2 jobs) that make the time. Parents these days CHOOSE to let the schools take on so much more then they should. Teaching, life skills, better eating, exercise, sex ed. I am not saying the schools should not be teaching this but you as parents MUST supplement it. If you take 2-4 hours a week filling your kids with positive influence, teaching them, helping them learn how to study, making them feel important - it WILL make a difference. If you choose to spend that time at Chuckie Cheese, hanging out at the mall, or watching tv/video games, that is NOT the school system's problem. We live in an area with free museums, free zoo, free libraries with free computer use. Tons of resources online, free interpreters, free ESOL classes for kids and adults, highly discounted summer learning help. There is no excuse. I work 40hrs a week and my husband works 60hrs. We have no outside help. We MAKE the time. I am so sick of excuses for the LAZY in all walks of life, which I believe weighs heavily on the "achievement gap."
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
So annoying that Valerie Ervin seems to be blaming the "achievement gap" on MCPS. What about talking about the responsibility of parents for a change and getting rid of all these racial categories for measuring performance?
Agree with this. If the parents don't care, there is no way to close this 'achievement gap'. Crazy if they continue to spend more money on this.
It's very rarely because parents don't care. It's usually because they don't have the time and/or resources to help.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
So annoying that Valerie Ervin seems to be blaming the "achievement gap" on MCPS. What about talking about the responsibility of parents for a change and getting rid of all these racial categories for measuring performance?
Agree with this. If the parents don't care, there is no way to close this 'achievement gap'. Crazy if they continue to spend more money on this.
It's very rarely because parents don't care. It's usually because they don't have the time and/or resources to help.
Agree. That is why dumbing down curriculum is misguided. The kids who really need help should get them at school. That means direct explicit instruction of reading and math at their level and lots of drills. Kids from high SES family may survive the reform math instruction but the low achieving kids need a more direct approach.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Pp, that is good hear. Trust me, I would rather my son be able to learn math at school than with me. I like to hear that MCPS is working out for you. Do you mind to share which school is this? Or do you think c2.0 covers algebra and fraction at the second grade for all?
I am not the PP you are asking, but DD is also in second grade (in Silver Spring). Her math curriculum this year has included algebraic thinking (expressed via word problems), and she is currently working on fractions.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Actually dumb down is going to make it worse. My son is 4. I have already decided that I need to instruct him on math myself at home because of all the bad things you hear here on math education. He is going to be fine. But the poor kids' parents may not be as math savvy as I am. And they are not going to be fine.
If they really want to help the poor kids, they need to provide more direct instruction at their level and not evaluate them on these 21st century skills and be surprised that they cannot do math or read.
Actually, dumbing down is one way of solving the achievement gap. If you make a test so easy that 100% of students pass, presto! No gap.
True. Except SAT and ACT is still not dumb enough. The state test is almost there. Maybe one day SAT and ACT will also be dumb?
One doesn't have to get all the way to 100%. Slightly watering down standards over time should show progress in reducing the gap.
Anonymous wrote:Pp, that is good hear. Trust me, I would rather my son be able to learn math at school than with me. I like to hear that MCPS is working out for you. Do you mind to share which school is this? Or do you think c2.0 covers algebra and fraction at the second grade for all?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
So annoying that Valerie Ervin seems to be blaming the "achievement gap" on MCPS. What about talking about the responsibility of parents for a change and getting rid of all these racial categories for measuring performance?
Agree with this. If the parents don't care, there is no way to close this 'achievement gap'. Crazy if they continue to spend more money on this.
It's very rarely because parents don't care. It's usually because they don't have the time and/or resources to help.