Hey baby, what's your sign?

She should totally cover her face and body in black cloths and steer clear from the agora for sure.

Anonymous wrote:This sounds like textbook sex addiction. I love how people write it off as being "very sexual" like it's a higher plane of existence and not a psychological problem.

Yes pp again. Sex addiction for sure. In addition to slaa look at work of Patrick Carnes.

Yes to sex addiction. See slaa.org
Sexual abuse can underlie the type of thinking and behavior op presents. You lack insight and self esteem.

I don't think you're a "very sexual" person. I think you're a promiscuous person, if you've had sex with every guy you've ever been friends with. This sounds like a serious issue - not normal.

There seem to be some real issues here with impulse control, OP.

This most def does not sound "normal" to me.

Anonymous wrote:Let me preface this by saying I am NOT a cheater. I am a very sexual person though, and whenever I've had a male friend, it has always led to sex. When in a relationship, I stay away from other males to avoid temptation and feeling that excitement of getting to know an attractive male. I don't know how to just be friends with a male and not feel that excitement or the desire to be flirty. SO and I have been to dinner with couple friends but I find it awkward and would rather just hang out with him alone, or girlfriends.
Can anyone relate to this or offer advice?

OP is taking advantage of the fact that a woman can have sex anytime she wants. Do you know how many guys would love to ha e sex with their female friends? She is living a man's dream.

What about married women who flirt with the wives. Yuck. Stay away from us.

This sounds like textbook sex addiction. I love how people write it off as being "very sexual" like it's a higher plane of existence and not a psychological problem.

sounds like a mental illnessm or brain damange. i have heard stroke victims who have had partial brian damage or blockage to certain parts of the brain can experience this.

I'll bet you have Daddy issues. No offense! I did. My Dad did a number on me and my sister. The key is you realize your tendencies, and you don't put yourself in a position to act on them. Good for you and keep doing that.

I understand avoiding friendships with the opposite sex in favor of boundaries and to remove any possible temptation, but the question is about "couple friends" which seems very different to me.

Going the other way, I tend to avoid friendships with women. I don't repress sexual thoughts about them; I simply don't act on those thoughts in any way. Nor am I tempted to. Because I'm not going to have sex with them, I don't crave their affection or approval. I seek those things from my wife.

Avoiding friendships with them is not usually difficult because, so often, we simply do not share common interests to any great degree.

Anonymous wrote:Let me preface this by saying I am NOT a cheater. I am a very sexual person though, and whenever I've had a male friend, it has always led to sex. When in a relationship, I stay away from other males to avoid temptation and feeling that excitement of getting to know an attractive male. I don't know how to just be friends with a male and not feel that excitement or the desire to be flirty. SO and I have been to dinner with couple friends but I find it awkward and would rather just hang out with him alone, or girlfriends.
Can anyone relate to this or offer advice?

You think like a typical male.

I don't get this- and I don't get a lot of the responses. I have a bunch of male friends that are 100% platonic (generally I am close with their wife/gf/ whatever too if they are attached, which most of the people I know now are), if I were single and they were I would probably be willing to date a lot of them/sleep with them, but that just doesn't compute when these men are in the context of good friendships! I see them more as my surrogate family than a possible person to cheat with! I think it boils down not to how sexual you are (bc I love and have tons of it!) or how attractive the man is (some responses seem to focus on this too much- I have plenty of attractive friends) but how you relate to men in general- there is more than one way to relate to men!