OP here. Thanks for the suggestions. As much as I would love to do it at home i'm afraid we just don't have that much space. Our immediate family alone is 15 people, including 3 over 90 year olds who will need to sit down. Even with 6 people in our apt it can feel tight.

not at home. we did ours at home, and i wish we hadn't. it was nice to be able to sneak into baby's room with him, but despite my best efforts, i still did a lot of work that day, and was on my feet all day in pain a week after a pretty bad delivery.