Anonymous wrote:I'm planning on it soon....I lost a ton of weight recently and I really want a tummy tuck and breast reduction. I'm 29, but I want to get it done right after I'm done having kids. (125 lbs lost and I really want the extra skin to go too...)
Anonymous wrote:This is OP - thanks to those who shared their experiences! I am 36, preg with my third (it will be my 3rd c-section), and have always wondered about a tummy tuck. To those that posted they never would do it, I TOTALLY, 100% get where you are coming from, but at the same time, I asked to hear from those who HAD done it. And yeah, 23 is typically your body's prime...hard to say what you'd do when your metabolism goes to hell in your 30's and you've had multiple pregnancies...
To those that have done a tummy tuck, what's the scar like a few years out? I guess anything is better than extra skin and a poochy tummy, right?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Personally, it just seems wrong to augment your appearance from the way you were born... other than for medical reasons.
I'd never consider plastic surgery for the sake of augmenting my natural self. No, I don't consider myself this super gorgeous model type. Hek, I think it'd be neat to have slightly larger breasts (like my lil sis) and a flatter tummy (but hey, i can work on that via good ol' fashion diet and exercise). Nevertheless, I'm confident in my appearance, and I consider my natural self to be beautiful.
Then again, I also have this pride complex where I'd see it as "cheating" or something to simply change the way I was born. Hell, I don't even use make-up (the biggest reasons being the pride thing and I really don't care for it). Shit, if you don't like the way I look, that's your problem... I'm not spending my life trying to please others.![]()
At any rate, I'd never consider it for myself, and I hate the idea of people doing it for purely vain and vacuous reasons (medical, fine... self esteem, eh, I guess if you're not all that confident with a healthy degree of self pride, haha, like me). But hell, to each his own. Your money, your time, your life, whatever.
[A happy, confident, beautiful (self-perspective) 23 year old]
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Anonymous wrote:Personally, it just seems wrong to augment your appearance from the way you were born... other than for medical reasons.
I'd never consider plastic surgery for the sake of augmenting my natural self. No, I don't consider myself this super gorgeous model type. Hek, I think it'd be neat to have slightly larger breasts (like my lil sis) and a flatter tummy (but hey, i can work on that via good ol' fashion diet and exercise). Nevertheless, I'm confident in my appearance, and I consider my natural self to be beautiful.
Then again, I also have this pride complex where I'd see it as "cheating" or something to simply change the way I was born. Hell, I don't even use make-up (the biggest reasons being the pride thing and I really don't care for it). Shit, if you don't like the way I look, that's your problem... I'm not spending my life trying to please others.![]()
At any rate, I'd never consider it for myself, and I hate the idea of people doing it for purely vain and vacuous reasons (medical, fine... self esteem, eh, I guess if you're not all that confident with a healthy degree of self pride, haha, like me). But hell, to each his own. Your money, your time, your life, whatever.
[A happy, confident, beautiful (self-perspective) 23 year old]