I am so sorry that you were so upset when you arrived and both you and your baby wanted to cry. I think that is a very natural reaction. I feel even worse that some of the posts here were judgmental - I know you want the best for you and your family because you posted here. You are bound to find your way! Good luck. You are a great parent.

I'd be unhappy with 33 kids in a class no matter how any teachers there were. That's just too much chaos for a young child (and if the kids are controlled enough such that there's no chaos, then that's too much control for young children).